Nude situations with different size men

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Women: Have you ever been in a situation either at a nude beach, skinny dipping, or in a threesome where one guy was much larger than another? Was it uncomfortable and did you feel embarrassed for the smaller guy? Or did you think it was fun to see the difference?

Guys: If you were the bigger one was it fun for you to "show up" the smaller guy? Did the woman or women in the situation give you more attention?
 

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Sorry, was it not clear that that is what I was saying?

Only tell him if you never want to sleep with him again. The single greatest factor in getting an erection beyond physical capability is confidence. Take that away and he'll flop around like a dead fish.
 

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I totally agree, we do the guys no favors when we lie to spare their feelings. My niece was just with a guy a couple weeks ago, not only was his dick tiny, she said he was useless in bed. He actually asked her if he was the biggest she'd ever been with! We can only figure that the other girls had lied to him.
 
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I was walking alone down a nude beach, along a stretch that was somewhat deserted. Suddenly I noticed up ahead of me a couple holding hands and walking towards me. They were probably a hundred yards from me but I could see already that they were a stunning couple.

The woman was very hot - thin with large, well shaped breasts and the guy she was with would definately fit in here. He had a very large flaccid cock, both long and very thick. Normally in a nude beach setting I don’t have a problem with getting aroused but as I kept walking toward them I could feel my penis starting to grow. Once that happens I’m in trouble because now that’s all I can think about and trying not to get an erection makes my dick all the harder. By the time I was about 20 feet from the couple, my penis was rock hard and bobbing around as I walked.

As I approached them, I didn’t know how they would react. I saw the girl was smiling at me and I tried to cover myself and apologize as they came near. They stopped and the girl said to me smiling, “That’s ok, erections are perfectly natural.” So, I dropped my hands and stood with them, my throbbing cock pointing up at her. She was very friendly and they both told me they were new to the area and were wondering where a good place to eat was. I think both of them were enjoying making small talk with me as I stood there with a raging but modest hard-on. His large genitals remained completely relaxed but he was still longer and much fatter than my erection. Maybe she was enjoying the fact that I was so small compared to her man, I don’t know, but finally she pointed at my penis and jokingly told me I better do something about that and they walked away. It was very embarrassing but also fun at the same time.
 
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I don't know if you're heartless bitch or not but with that comment you certainly are rude one.

Right so you're suggesting that we just put up with sex that (literally in his case) puts you to sleep? No, sorry.

I'm all for sparing feelings where possible, and I'm all for being supportive (my husband had never had sex properly until he met me, he simply couldn't keep an erection because he felt he was being judged) but not at the expense of living a lie.

Now, would you kindly not treat me like some heartless bitch or clueless 16yo?
 

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I used to goto the nude beach at Sandy Hook in NJ. I can remember several times being around a couple in which the man was pretty small and the woman's eyes were wondering. I don't think its that big of a deal though, no different than the few times (very few!!) I've seen attractive women there and I may glance at their ass, boots etc....

Getting aroused at a crowded nude beach is a big no-no. If I am there by myself and walking among a crowd, I would usually wear a g-string for that exact reason. I have found that attracts just as much attention and saves me from worrying about getting an erection at a bad time.

I remember one time as it was getting dark I was walking in front of a couple that was probably in their mid 30s. (I was ~ 26 at the time) and I had on a yellow g-string. I could sense she was staring at my ass so i did acknowledge both of them. Once we got to the showers/bathrooms her man kept walking to the car (a LONG walk) and she stopped and sat down at the tables. It was pretty deserted at that point and we struck up a conversation. She mentioned she thought she forgot something on the beach and asked me to walk back with her which I did. Once we got on the beach she made a joke and reminded me it was a nude beach and jokingly said she didn't walk back on the beach with me to see me in a g-string. I took off the g-string, we walked to get her sunglasses and then walked back. She was openly checking out my ass & package which got me aroused. We didn't do anything though, all she said as we got back was that I better put my g-string back on and that she would dream about me the next time she was with her husband. We both laughed....I don't think she felt bad for him or whatever....
 

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Men will never like being told they are not good. I have tried it and I was nice about it and it just made him worse.
The only thing you can do is help him get better, if he can. Some things like the size of their cock cannot be changed.
If I end up with a man with a small one I go ahead and fuck him, I wouldn't be in that situation if I didn't like him, but I won't again, but I won't tell him why though. That's my preference.
I've tried to help men who can't fuck long before cumming but it's generally useless, too much for me to try to fix, but I don't usually tell them why I won't fuck them anymore unless they ask me directly if that is what it is, which has happened, some men just want to know how you rate them, they ask to be compared. The men who couldn't get it up or keep it up, well it was obvious why I put my clothes back on, but I was still nice about it.
I'll never understand men who insist on asking if they were the best or if it was great sex, I won't lie if they weren't or if it wasn't. Don't ask don't tell, I say. If it was truly incredible I'll let you know!
 

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Maybe he just needed to level up his sex skills.

Sorry, was it not clear that that is what I was saying?

I think that was meant to be a WoW joke, K.

Right so you're suggesting that we just put up with sex that (literally in his case) puts you to sleep? No, sorry.

I'm all for sparing feelings where possible, and I'm all for being supportive (my husband had never had sex properly until he met me, he simply couldn't keep an erection because he felt he was being judged) but not at the expense of living a lie.

Now, would you kindly not treat me like some heartless bitch or clueless 16yo?

Damn right. How can you (Jason) say that you can't give a guy feedback on poor sex? You have sex with men, surely if they are bad at it and you want them to get better you have to talk to them about it.

I don't know if you're heartless bitch or not but with that comment you certainly are rude one.

I completely fail to understand what in that post was rude.

I haven't been around multiple nude men at the same time much at all :frown: Not in a sexual context. The only time I have been was in communal showers and I never stopped to notice how the guys were reacting to each other. Most people seem to be just getting on and showering. I can't say I particularly stared either but I don't recall major noticable size differences amongst any of the guys I saw in that circumstance anyway.
 

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Yeah, my dick is only 6 inches, but I have good girth.

Never have any complains from women because I can eat pussy REALLY well - so by the time I'm screwing she's almost finished.

But, in the shower room at the gym, my dick shrivels up to nothing - not only do guys NOT turn me on, but my dick tends to recede into my scrotum - sort of embarrassing.
 

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Women: Have you ever been in a situation either at a nude beach, skinny dipping, or in a threesome where one guy was much larger than another? Was it uncomfortable and did you feel embarrassed for the smaller guy? Or did you think it was fun to see the difference?

Guys: If you were the bigger one was it fun for you to "show up" the smaller guy? Did the woman or women in the situation give you more attention?


Being a female nudist, I have been in situations like you are describing. I will be out at Hippie Hollow on a week day (the only female out there.....unless I can talk a housewife friend to go with me) I will be sitting on a rock enjoying the beautiful weather......and the next thing I know there will be 12 guys sitting around me wanting to talk. I remember one day in particular.......this new guy with a large cock was visiting Hippie Hollow for the first time......and he came over and was visiting with me and my female friend that I had brought out there for the day. The area where we were sitting was swamped with men that day. Men with all different size cocks.....but all were smaller than the new guy. I know that I enjoyed the view. It is exciting just to see a guy with a large cock. Not that I have anything against anyone that has a small cock.

As my female friend and I were leaving that day.....she made some observations that I was clueless too. (I guess I was zoning that day.) She said that it looked like the guy with the big cock was uncomfortable with all the attention he was getting. She thought he didn't feel comfortable with the guys standing right in front of him staring at his cock. I guess she was right, because when we left......(I had to go pick up kiddos from school) he was right behind us. He caught up with us in the parking lot.

I know my husband is always trying to talk me into taking my camera with me when I go to Hippie Hollow. He wants me to have my pic taken with a guy with a big cock and a guy with a smaller cock. I think it is a visual thing for him. I am just not into taking a camera to a nudist place. It is like the last thing on my mind. I don't think my husband understands how upset people get when they see a camera......I would never take anyone's pic without their consent. But there are a lot of people who do and put the pics on the Internet.....and people can lose their jobs.... So this makes picture taking at a nudist beach more work than it is worth.
 

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My wife and I have regular 3-somes with a couple different guys who are much larger than me. I'm perfectly fine with it, and I don't feel embarassed at all. She loves the big ones, and they do more for her, but she still likes mine too.
 

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Multiple people usually the same other dude. the smaller dude was a pornogolic be seemed think it was like live porn. I had fun' till he wanted to start taping it. He was maybe the the same thickness but maybe half in length. I must same it was hot hearing him tell the girls to play with my big dick, hearing girls agnoledge it is hot but to have people talk about it sexual refrense. Probably helped to develop this obsession I have exhibitionism.
 
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Nude beach I go to has mostly normal,(unattractive?) overweight, average looking men and women. Definately more hot young women than well hung men, but all outnumbered by the average fat old guy. But there is one 20something guy who comes down to the waters edge, digs out a large sand 'couch' and covers it with a huge 10X10 terrycloth towel and takes his 'throne'. He has the perfect chin, dark hair, no tan lines, shaved, and I swear a big 10 inches of thickly veined penis which he carefully flops out across one thigh. Pierced tip, and other body decor too.. Most men/women, couples, walking by avoid any eye contact with BeachGod and just move on, then break into a smile or laugh at his desperate effort to be THE main attraction. Never saw a woman look at her partner in disappointment after seeing the big boy. His effort/attitude sucks, that's for sure.
 

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ive been in some threesomes where one guy was way bigger, but i tried to spend time evenly with both of them. Some of the smaller guys really knew how to make up for the size difference though.

So how does the smaller guy make up for it? With oral skills? Does that mean size is unimportant to you? I have found that most women still much preferr intercourse with larger guys regardless of how much I tried to "compensate." Women seem to want something they can feel, not something "lost in space."

BTW, you are gorgeous!
 

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Just curious as to how you have helped guys who finish to quick.
I have this friend you see..........