johnny8x8: Mrs. 8x8 and I disagree on nudism and my desire for us BOTH to enjoy naturism in APPROPRIATE SETTINGS. We're NOT talking about showing up at the school picnic au naturel. I'm talking about her and I going to visit clothing optional clubs/resorts, etc. and really targetting the family-oriented ones. Wife says this is just a) my mid-life crisis rearing its ugly head [I'm 39]; b) an excuse to show my package; and c) a means to meet other women, nude and right under her nose. I enjoy nudism for the freedom, the relaxation, the sunshine and within the privacy and confines of areas with like-minded people. Am I "flaunting it" or just being natural? Now honestly, if I wanted to hook up with people, I wouldn't need a pretense to do it. Secondly, although I am proud of the package and it has served me well, I think that I am rather ordinary in the flaccid state being between 6 and 7" long flaccid and 5.75+" in girth flaccid. It's nice but I've seen bigger. Considering my overall appearance (looking like a retired football player and graying at the temples) I don't have people exactly flocking around me. What do you think?