jerkin4-10: being bigger than your average bear...physically...6' 240...lift weights all that shit...i get the same kind of responses...i can remember one time coming from the gym with my wife going to eat at a casual restuarant...knowing several people there...wearing a windsuit...was cold out...when i got inside and was seated, stood up and pulled off my jacket and had on a thin tanktop...i really didnt notice...but my wife said every woman in the room gauked and gasped at me...LOL...which made her feel great...being married to someone that was still worthy of attention from the opposite sex...the men on the other hand...were looking at me like..'you fuggin uncouth asshole'...it was just funny...hey any guy that is fit will appreciate this because its a JOB to be that way...my point is...hey...whether you have a big dick...or a fit body...anything that is outside the norm...you are going to get responses...from the people that are positive...your gonna get the thumbs up...from the people that are negative...your going to get snubbed...so...WTF?...as long as you feel good about you...and your not showing your dick to schoolkids...do what you feel.... and if they stare...know that more than likely they are saying ...'damn i wish i was hung like that', no matter what their expression says...LOL...have a good day...
jackinman: [quote author=johnny8x8 link=board=meetgreet;num=1067265908;start=0#0 date=10/27/03 at 06:36:08]Mrs. 8x8 and I disagree on nudism and my desire for us BOTH to enjoy naturism in APPROPRIATE SETTINGS. We're NOT talking about showing up at the school picnic au naturel. I'm talking about her and I going to visit clothing optional clubs/resorts, etc. and really targetting the family-oriented ones.
Wife says this is just a) my mid-life crisis rearing its ugly head [I'm 39]; b) an excuse to show my package; and c) a means to meet other women, nude and right under her nose.
I enjoy nudism for the freedom, the relaxation, the sunshine and within the privacy and confines of areas with like-minded people.
Am I "flaunting it" or just being natural?
Now honestly, if I wanted to hook up with people, I wouldn't need a pretense to do it. Secondly, although I am proud of the package and it has served me well, I think that I am rather ordinary in the flaccid state being between 6 and 7" long flaccid and 5.75+" in girth flaccid. It's nice but I've seen bigger. Considering my overall appearance (looking like a retired football player and graying at the temples) I don't have people exactly flocking around me.
What do you think?[/quote]
I have sort of a pet peeve with people that will go to a
"NUDE BEACH" or a "CLOTHING OPTIONAL RESORT" and then accuse someone else of flaunting it. That's similar to the ones that move next to a major airport then complain about all the noise. Simple solution.....don't got to them.
Anyways.....johnny8x8, no you're not flaunting it simply for the reasons you stated above. Since that's an appropriate setting for you to be nude I don't see a problem, however, if Mrs. 8x8, (btw does she know you're calling her this
) isn't comfortable with the idea then you shouldn't go. No need to be in the dog house my friend.
But I do have a question for you.......how comfortable are YOU with the idea of Mrs. 8x8 baring it all at one of these resorts?? Hope is not a double standard situation.l
Wife says this is just a) my mid-life crisis rearing its ugly head [I'm 39]; b) an excuse to show my package; and c) a means to meet other women, nude and right under her nose.
I enjoy nudism for the freedom, the relaxation, the sunshine and within the privacy and confines of areas with like-minded people.
Am I "flaunting it" or just being natural?
Now honestly, if I wanted to hook up with people, I wouldn't need a pretense to do it. Secondly, although I am proud of the package and it has served me well, I think that I am rather ordinary in the flaccid state being between 6 and 7" long flaccid and 5.75+" in girth flaccid. It's nice but I've seen bigger. Considering my overall appearance (looking like a retired football player and graying at the temples) I don't have people exactly flocking around me.
What do you think?[/quote]
I have sort of a pet peeve with people that will go to a
"NUDE BEACH" or a "CLOTHING OPTIONAL RESORT" and then accuse someone else of flaunting it. That's similar to the ones that move next to a major airport then complain about all the noise. Simple solution.....don't got to them.
Anyways.....johnny8x8, no you're not flaunting it simply for the reasons you stated above. Since that's an appropriate setting for you to be nude I don't see a problem, however, if Mrs. 8x8, (btw does she know you're calling her this
) isn't comfortable with the idea then you shouldn't go. No need to be in the dog house my friend. But I do have a question for you.......how comfortable are YOU with the idea of Mrs. 8x8 baring it all at one of these resorts?? Hope is not a double standard situation.l
johnny8x8: Hi Jack,
I would be fine with Mrs. 8x8 baring all at a C/O club or resort. I am secure in our relationship, so it she ( or should be). If Mrs. 8x8 wanted to fuck around and have me not know it, there are 100 ways that would happen. But I trust that she does not. Similarly, if I wanted to get laid I could do the same. Truth is I want her, not anyone else, and believe she feels the same.
I would be fine with Mrs. 8x8 baring all at a C/O club or resort. I am secure in our relationship, so it she ( or should be). If Mrs. 8x8 wanted to fuck around and have me not know it, there are 100 ways that would happen. But I trust that she does not. Similarly, if I wanted to get laid I could do the same. Truth is I want her, not anyone else, and believe she feels the same.
Solis24: Does she know this at all? Does she know and feel that you are 100% behind her? Have you at all had a discussion over the whole matter or was it jst a quick dismissla on her part? I think you have a number of valuable arguments gathered up and shouldn't just back down because Mrs. doesn't want. At least put up a fight, so to speak, bring out your arguments, but if in the end she still firmly opposes and you think it could damage your relationship, then I guess it would be better if you didn't. What kind of compromises would be possible? What about two long chairs in your backyard with a low nontransparent plastic or fabric fence around them to block out the view from your neighbours?
rikter8: Interesting topic Gals and Guys.
Heres something that I viewed from listening to my sister.
My sister is very....how should I say...paranoid..
that her boyfriend is cheating on her.
She constantly is on the lookout for boobie pics or any internet porn he may be enjoying.
I went for a week trying to calm her down because she found some pics of chicks with big boobs and baloons.
man..that was a fiasco!
Then the cum stains in his underwear made it even more difficult.
It could be the same thing? Jealousy or fear of loosing someone that you care for?
Mabee im way off kilter here, but like my sister, she's deathly afraid of being cheated on, and deathly afraid of loosing him, and having to start over, or get in a predicament.
Lord knows ive been cheated on by other men, and I guess I would have the same concern about being in a place that might be cruizy.
Lets Face it. Yea some of you enjoy walkin on the beach completely nude....
But come on - the real reason you go to the nude beach is to see BOOBIES and COCK.
Even though you may be straight - its a CRUIZY place where gay/Bi/Curious men/women are going to go. Its a place to see and be seen.
If you see someone comin around you and looking - remember YOU are on display - You CHOOSE to be on display - so why get upset over it?
The old saying 'If ya got it - Flaunt it" I think is very cool.
BUT, just dont make a total buttmunch out of yourself because you have a big penis.
Corey
Heres something that I viewed from listening to my sister.
My sister is very....how should I say...paranoid..
that her boyfriend is cheating on her.
She constantly is on the lookout for boobie pics or any internet porn he may be enjoying.
I went for a week trying to calm her down because she found some pics of chicks with big boobs and baloons.
man..that was a fiasco!
Then the cum stains in his underwear made it even more difficult.
It could be the same thing? Jealousy or fear of loosing someone that you care for?
Mabee im way off kilter here, but like my sister, she's deathly afraid of being cheated on, and deathly afraid of loosing him, and having to start over, or get in a predicament.
Lord knows ive been cheated on by other men, and I guess I would have the same concern about being in a place that might be cruizy.
Lets Face it. Yea some of you enjoy walkin on the beach completely nude....
But come on - the real reason you go to the nude beach is to see BOOBIES and COCK.
Even though you may be straight - its a CRUIZY place where gay/Bi/Curious men/women are going to go. Its a place to see and be seen.
If you see someone comin around you and looking - remember YOU are on display - You CHOOSE to be on display - so why get upset over it?
The old saying 'If ya got it - Flaunt it" I think is very cool.
BUT, just dont make a total buttmunch out of yourself because you have a big penis.
Corey
Tender: [quote author=rikter8 link=board=meetgreet;num=1067265908;start=20#24 date=10/29/03 at 19:17:00]
But come on - the real reason you go to the nude beach is to see BOOBIES and COCK.
Even though you may be straight - its a CRUIZY place where gay/Bi/Curious men/women are going to go. Its a place to see and be seen.
Corey[/quote]
this for me is the reason the *Mrs* says
'no'.
Tender
But come on - the real reason you go to the nude beach is to see BOOBIES and COCK.
Even though you may be straight - its a CRUIZY place where gay/Bi/Curious men/women are going to go. Its a place to see and be seen.
Corey[/quote]
this for me is the reason the *Mrs* says
'no'.
Tender
jackinman: [quote author=johnny8x8 link=board=meetgreet;num=1067265908;start=20#22 date=10/29/03 at 01:57:54]Hi Jack,
I would be fine with Mrs. 8x8 baring all at a C/O club or resort. I am secure in our relationship, so it she ( or should be). If Mrs. 8x8 wanted to fuck around and have me not know it, there are 100 ways that would happen. But I trust that she does not. Similarly, if I wanted to get laid I could do the same. Truth is I want her, not anyone else, and believe she feels the same.[/quote]
How you doing johnny
Very good to hear that man. I really hope everything works out for both of you.
I would be fine with Mrs. 8x8 baring all at a C/O club or resort. I am secure in our relationship, so it she ( or should be). If Mrs. 8x8 wanted to fuck around and have me not know it, there are 100 ways that would happen. But I trust that she does not. Similarly, if I wanted to get laid I could do the same. Truth is I want her, not anyone else, and believe she feels the same.[/quote]
How you doing johnny
Very good to hear that man. I really hope everything works out for both of you.
johnny8x8: Thanks Solis, Rikter, Tender and Jack for yoru comments.
I actually bring up the subject with Mrs. 8x8 at least on a weekly basis, sometimes in gest, always with an invitation that she and I BOTH visit one of the C/O places. I've offered bribery even (cruise ... on C/O ship ... or ship with C/O sundeck ...) and still no avail.
As far as cheating, yes, she is paranoid. NO, I have never cheated on her. Yes, she knows that I visit LPSG and cybernude.com. NO, she doesn't like it. I know that all I'm trying to do is spice up our marriage. After being together 10 years, things need "juicing up" and I figured why not do an activity TOGETHER that's both sensual and recreational (and legal). I have bought some nude recreation guides/places to visit books and shown her the directories that list dozens and dozens of places we could visit ... just the two of us ... So rather than being a constant pain-in-the-ass about this, I'm leaving it alone at least until Thanksgiving when we visit her folks (they nude-hottub) and I'll try again then.
Thanks for your interesting posts!
I actually bring up the subject with Mrs. 8x8 at least on a weekly basis, sometimes in gest, always with an invitation that she and I BOTH visit one of the C/O places. I've offered bribery even (cruise ... on C/O ship ... or ship with C/O sundeck ...) and still no avail.
As far as cheating, yes, she is paranoid. NO, I have never cheated on her. Yes, she knows that I visit LPSG and cybernude.com. NO, she doesn't like it. I know that all I'm trying to do is spice up our marriage. After being together 10 years, things need "juicing up" and I figured why not do an activity TOGETHER that's both sensual and recreational (and legal). I have bought some nude recreation guides/places to visit books and shown her the directories that list dozens and dozens of places we could visit ... just the two of us ... So rather than being a constant pain-in-the-ass about this, I'm leaving it alone at least until Thanksgiving when we visit her folks (they nude-hottub) and I'll try again then.
Thanks for your interesting posts!
