Nudity with Friends (J/O and More)

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Does anyone here have a friend that they J/O with or just hang out with in the nude?
 
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i live with three of my best buddies, we've known each other forever, and we're really open about everything so we are ok with being naked around each other. we also sit around and watch vids and jerk
 

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I have a few friends like that. Male, although some naked ladies join us sometimes as well. We usually swim naked at night or sit in my jacuzzi. It's really relaxing.

It took a while for one of my friends to go all the way though. He was embarrassed about his flaccid size, especially after seeing mine. One night, while we were drinking and other people were doing their thing, I decided to go hot tubbing and said he was welcome to join me in whatever state he wanted. I said it felt great to be in water nude, and I guess it was enough for him to loosen up and lose his underwear. Honestly, it was kinda small, maybe two inches, but the guy was fun and I knew it was kinda hard for him, so I acted nonchalant and even complimented him. He was within average range or close to it.

That said, it usually takes some amount of alcohol for my friends to be naked near each other for extended periods of time. It's unfortunate that they feel so goddamn self-conscious.
 

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When I was in my youth, there were a couple of us who would get together weekly for a circle jerk. Eventually, it lead into a one on one relationship with one of the other circle members. Thinking about it again is making me.....:wink:
 

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In college a buddy of mine and I used to get together and jerk eachother off. Anybody else have an time like this.:biggrin1:
 
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i feel that jerking with friends doesn't have to be serious and I believe that uk1212 is straight
 

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You know, uk1212, some people would say that makes you guys gay. Not me, but a lot of other people. What do you say to that?
I would have to agee, what started out for me as a group of guys jerking off, turned into quick a fling. (Not that I minded)
 
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You know, uk1212, some people would say that makes you guys gay. Not me, but a lot of other people. What do you say to that?

yeah, i know. we're all straight just cool with each other. hell, two of them have girlfriends. it's not like we're blowing each other and having gay sex. jerking each other is not a big deal tho besides its only happened twice haha.
 

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I don't know why guys get so paranoid and hung up about the subject of wanking. We all do it. It's a laugh. It's a bonding experience more than a sexual experience.

Some guys have no shame about whipping out their cocks and fooling around pissing in front of their mates, yet have a real complex about the idea of adopting the same stance and rubbing out a load of jizz.

It's no big deal - it's not like you're wanting to shag them! It's just a bit of laddish competitiveness and curiosity about what a mate's hanging, how thick it is, how he handles himself (esp. if his cut status is different to your own).
 
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ya i have friends like that both male and female. we go skinny dip and have fun:wink: when we are all on vacation together.
 

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Yeah I'm in college and I have a friend that when we shared a dorm room there really wasn't much of a choice but to jack off in front of each other. Eventually it led to jacking each other off and sometimes even naked spooning. I don't see it as a gay thing at all, more of a comfort thing. I just feel comfortable enough with myself and him to jack him off and let him jack me off. Honestly I have heard this more and more common lately and I go to a conservative private college in Texas. Guys spoon naked, watch porn together, hug for extended period of time in public, and on the rare occasion jack each other off.
 

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Yeah I'm in college and I have a friend that when we shared a dorm room there really wasn't much of a choice but to jack off in front of each other. Eventually it led to jacking each other off and sometimes even naked spooning. I don't see it as a gay thing at all, more of a comfort thing. I just feel comfortable enough with myself and him to jack him off and let him jack me off. Honestly I have heard this more and more common lately and I go to a conservative private college in Texas. Guys spoon naked, watch porn together, hug for extended period of time in public, and on the rare occasion jack each other off.

That's the trend. I'm amazed by the cultural shift given that the same guys modest in a locker room. Know some young guys and they mention a fair amount of group nudity or just two of them.
 

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You know, uk1212, some people would say that makes you guys gay. Not me, but a lot of other people. What do you say to that?

so explain why "we" have to be so quick to assign labels? (or judgement?)

on the 'big continium of sexuality' there is a pretty good range....

why not "label" this person 'bi'?

as long as he is happy and enjoying his life to the fullest (and it doesn't involve underage kids or sheep :)) who cares?