It isn't that bad of an argument. Military polling and civilian polling show very different reactions to the idea of gays in uniform.
That's a cop-out as well as a disingenuous statement.
People who have a problem with homosexuality show different reactions to gay people in general. That's regardless of whether or not they're in uniform.
"A 2006
Zogby International poll of military members found that 26% were in favor of gays and lesbians serving in the military, 37% opposed gays and lesbians serving, and 37% expressed no preference or were unsure."
from wikipedia
And that's a disingenuous survey.
There has been extensive research on the issue of homosexuality in the world of Science & Psychology and there's nothing a 2006 survey that only questions a handful of Military workers can say to discredit or change it. Being opposed to gays & lesbians is nothing more than a discriminating fear generated in the minds of people who do not like the idea of tolerating someone that is different from themselves. It's also fueled by their convoluted beliefs of sexuality and what some people consider as socially acceptable in everyday society. Considering that you're on a site where the general topic is big dicks, you should know this.
So, more soldiers oppose gays serving than favor the idea. Should civilians have more of a say in such an issue than soldiers? I don't know, myself, I'm just trying to show that the argument you roll your eyes and laugh at does indeed have merit.
I still roll my eyes at it.
The Military, beyond everything else, is a JOB. Just like any other place of employment, state & federal laws are strict about discrimination on the workplace. Why should the Military be any different? I mean, if you knew the person sitting next to you at your job was gay would it affect your ability to do the tasks you were hired for? Is worrying about whether or not your bunk mate sucks dick more important than preventing yourself and your comrades from getting shot by the enemy? If the issue is being the best that you can be, wouldn't it be safe to suggest that we shouldn't even be considering people with such archaic beliefs as THEY could be the ones displaying some kind of deficiency that prevents THEM from doing their job?
If McDonald's can enforce rules to prevent unfair treatment to gays & lesbians just to flip a burger, then there's no excuse for anyone in the Military.