And wldhoney:newangel: tried so hard. :newangel: She was so patient:newangel:
and yet. . . . ?:banghead::banghead::banghead:
Nothing seems to be working. :buttkick:
Perhaps another poll would help? :argue: :smashfreakB: :hitwithrock: :buttkick: :buttkick: :swordfight:okey: :buttkick: :buttkick:
uttahere:
Thanks, BurningVenus. I appreciate the support. I was trying, as I think that mem's intentions are in the right place and he is sensitive. Unfortunately, I think that mem either enjoys or is stuck in a cycle in which he always sees himself as the "victim". That way, he never has to take responsibility for his own actions. It's always going to be everyone else's fault. Even regarding the last two posts from naughty. He latched onto it being everyone else, while ignoring that she was addressing all of us, including mem.
Mem, bless your heart was a sincere accolade, one you chose to make fun of while ignoring everything else. I do my best to be gentle, to be kind, and to not belittle. You, however, have not done the same and expressed the opinion that I am "holier-than-thou". Again, if you can dish it out, you need to be able to take it. So, here it is, a bit stronger, and then I will leave you to continue making your life harder.
You can be sweet, your polls and threads are the curious you, and I believe you have every right to continue to post them, and will always support that.
However, it is MY perception that you are also VERY rude, mean, and the way you relate to others is puerile. I could be wrong, and going too far, but personally, I believe that your relationships in the "real" world are probably filled with the same type of behavior and that you are unable to maintain them. In MY opinion, you have no sense of self-responsibility. You are like a child who snatches a toy from another, then cries and runs to tell when the toy is snatched back. You are the CAUSE of your own problems. Nobody else. Others do not hate you. We simply cannot have adult discussions with you.
I won't let you push my buttons, mem, because I refuse to be controlled by others who behave as you do. But I will tell you that this is probably the first time I have ever gone so far in actually pointing a finger and saying "YOU are..."childishly vindictive".
If you want to continue butting heads with people, then continue as you are. Or, you could ask members where they feel you are going wrong and actually try and grow. That's what someone who truly wants to learn, as you stated in an earlier post, would do.