Obsessed with girlfriend's X-boyfriend's cock

[139189]

My ex lives with me, and we're still friends (not same room, but same apartment), and this new guy she's with claims I have a golden penis or something, and just today she told me that he doesn't really compare to me in that department talk about a self-esteem boost, and I'm only 7.5~8 X 5.8~

and she also says I spoiled her in that aspect? hahahaha

 

[johnjacobs]

Seems like you have some penis envy plus a fetish for thinking about your girlfriend getting fucked by a big cock. The best advice I can give you is to fuck the shit out of her and do your best to please her. Plus, she says you're fine. Nothing to worry about it, mate!

 

[Amber1]

Fuck sake get over it!!! I have no money and life is hard!!!!

Who gives a shit??? Its just ur cock!!! Bloody helll!!!

Sort urself out!!!!!

 

[morsecode]

Fuck sake get over it!!! I have no money and life is hard!!!!

Who gives a shit??? Its just ur cock!!! Bloody helll!!!

Sort urself out!!!!!

Internetz srz bisnez

 

[MickeyLee]

a bit of input from the female perspective.

unless your girl is into cuckolding and likes humiliating you, all comments or questions regarding her ex's cock will make her think less of you. it reads as insecurity, antagonism and distrust. none of which casts you in a flattering light. you have a right to be upset or curious, but as a grown ass man you have the responsibility to deal with your issues and not put that burden on her shoulders.

a jump back to cuckolding and a possible fetish, if the idea of her getting fucked by his massive cock turns you, then tell her that, she might reacted badly or she might be willing to indulge your fetish with roleplay or stories. either way you have opened the door to communication. the possibility of resolving true angst and maybe exploring a kink without harassing the poor woman endlessly.

if cuckolding isn't your kink, then your issue isn't really with his cock, your issue is your own self worth and self opinion. a little inventory of why you feel what you feel might help you in the long run.

ml
a woman who loves you will put up with no end of stupidity, you are going to run into problems when she decides loving you ain't worth the hassle.

 

[Skull Mason]

just suck him off and get it over with

 

[poizen-ivy]

Umm you offering? hehehehe

 

[poizen-ivy]

Fuck sake get over it!!! I have no money and life is hard!!!!

Who gives a shit??? Its just ur cock!!! Bloody helll!!!

Sort urself out!!!!!

LOL
I <3 U

xx

 

[Pitbull]

I note a recurring theme

a bit of input from the female perspective.

...all comments or questions regarding her ex's cock will make her think less of you. it reads as insecurity, antagonism and distrust. none of which casts you in a flattering light.
... as a grown ass man you have the responsibility to deal with your issues and not put that burden on her shoulders.
...you are going to run into problems when she decides loving you ain't worth the hassle.

4.) This is most important. If you continue to obsess over the size of your penis it will damage the relationship with your girlfriend.

Is everyone paying attention?

 

[hud01]

he will have to do the new bf soon

 

[D_Beau Nerr]

Man, it will make you only miserable.

 

[wallyj84]

It's been awhile since this topic was initially posted, how did the thread starter deal with his bout of penis envy?

 

[nubstar]

I mean u tell us our ass soesn't look 2 big rite? and we tell u its huge???

It just makes the world go round....and no doubt saves a few marriages!!

lmao ^^

 

[deleted81224]

Why dont you just ask your GF to invite her ex round to your place and watch him drill her with his impressive member, she how much she enjoys it and then make your mind up. Who knows, you might even get off on it?

Just a thought.

 

[Ranxerox]

If it was so important, she wouldn't even be with you. If it was so amazing she would endure *any* hardship to keep that relationship alive. Trust me, it's not important to her... in time after you've possibly ruined the relationship over this green devil, you may see the light. You will be sexier in her eyes doing odd jobs around the house, sweating shirtless, rather than sitting on the couch with a big dick. This is a fact...

 

[deleted81224]

But can he make her moan and groan like her ex did?

My only advice would be a type of cock-duel to get this out of your system, take it in turns to mount her and see who she enjoys best. You may be suprised with the results and can then put this evil to rest. Alternatively, she may prefer her more packed ex which wouldnt really solve anything but I guess at least you will know.

 

[dong-in-khakis]

..sounds like if you could give it to her like he did it wouldn't make her feel better, it would make you feel better. There's a big difference.

I understand though dude. Probably every man out there, regardless of his size wishes he were larger or different in some way. I wish I had my natural foreskin and sometimes feel so cheated because I had no choice in the matter. Sometimes I've actually gotten mad over the issue. I realized it was useless to think on it though.. what in the world can I really do about it?

Don't let penis envy get the best of you, because if you let it, it will. It will only keep you self-conscious and inadeqaute feeling for the rest of your life.

Like someone else said, if she's getting off and you're getting off everything should be satisfied.

 

[Pitbull]

But can he make her moan and groan like her ex did?

My only advice would be a type of cock-duel to get this out of your system, take it in turns to mount her and see who she enjoys best. You may be suprised with the results and can then put this evil to rest. Alternatively, she may prefer her more packed ex which wouldnt really solve anything but I guess at least you will know.

Roger you are not helping.

One more post like that and I might accept the negative opinion of you that is oozing from your posts like pus from an infected wound.

May I suggest watching some porn and masturbating in order to satisfy your perverted voyeuristic fantasies to relieve the tension you are experiencing.

:3822733875wackit:

 

[deleted81224]

Pitbull - thankfully I couldnt give a sweaty nad as to what you think. I do laugh from time to time when self-righteous pricks come along such as yourself preaching to all beneath them. Take your head out of your arse and take a look around.

Please dont reply to this post - tedious.

My suggestion whilst odd was genuine - this guy will always have this problem (cock envy) whether he is with his current partner or the next, it will haunt him like self-righteous people haunt Tommy Normal.

My suggestion is this - explore the option of dueling with her and be rid of this monkey on your back. I would draw the line however at a conker type cock fight, well maybe.

 

[deleted15807]

Don't let penis envy get the best of you, because if you let it, it will. It will only keep you self-conscious and inadeqaute feeling for the rest of your life.

Fer sure. Just move on. No need to live in the past.