Obsessed with sex?

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  1. D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah

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    Talking for myself but im sure many others will see themselves in this truth. If im not having sex im thinking about it, watching porn, masturbation, looking for new toys or even just here talking about it.

    I thought it was just because i havent had sex in a while and am sexual fusterated but then i realised even when im in a relationship i make sex a major factor.

    So now my worry is am i putting to much time, effort and energy into sex and everything that surrounds it? Are you the same and have you ever wondered if you spend to much time thinking about or being involved in sexual activities? Is it abnormal to be so enthuastic about sex and all things related? Are we different from the rest of society?



    I know this would be suited to a better section but i like the crowd of people we have here in The Womens section
     
  2. Love-it

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    I thought that it was only men who were constantly thinking about sex until a female co-worker and I started discussing sex and how neither one of us was getting what we needed from our spouses and what the reasons may be: her husband was an alcoholic and had a bad back, where they used to have sex 4 or more times a day it had dwindled to maybe once a week; you already know my story.

    But I believe that she thinks about sex more than I do and that just blew me away because I didn't think it was possible that anyone male and especially female could think about sex more than I do.
     
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    It's only unhealthy to be overly concerned about weather it's healthy or not. If I'm not having sex or masturbating, I'm thinking about it. It has never cost me a job or kept me from my responsibilities. If you enjoy sex, it's only natural to think about it, just as you would with any passion. So, go on; think about sex, talk about sex and participate in sexual activities! Most of all, be proud that you can be so passionate about something so pleasurable!

    Britt
     
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    As Love-it mentioned, I also thought that only men thought about sex constantly. I am frequently distracted by thoughts of sex. At 42, it seems as though I am getting hornier as I age. Despite regular, great sex (thanks Honey!), my cock goes up and down all day. A beautiful face, hair, ass, sexy voice, perfume, etc., etc., usually sends me off into a sexual fantasy.

    Certainly my time and energy could be better spent; however, I would rather fantasize about sex than spend these moments stressing about life and work, something I used to do too often. I imagine whatever hormones or chemicals flood the body in response to a sexual thought must be better for me physically than those which are produced by a stressful or negative thought.

    Maybe it is abnormal, maybe it is an obsession, but I feel it is a generally healthy and natural one.
     
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    > If im not having sex im thinking about it, watching porn, masturbation, looking for new toys or even just here talking about it.

    yup.
     
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    I think that sex is an indicator of how passionate one feels about another in a relationship. If you are thinking more about it than doing it, I think that you need some things that you are passionate about in your life. You wanting sex all the time reflects that.

    Yeah. I am using myself as an example. :smile:
     
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    I have my times where Sex is something I think about a lot. When I'm checking a guy out, I'm usually wondering how good he is in bed... If he'll hold me the way I'd like a guy to hold me. I also don't understand why guys always want chicks with blonde hair? I like my hair to be black, so unless they like chicks with black hair (not necessarily natural either since I dye mine) or maybe wacky colored hair (I've had mine purple and also had red streaks before...) then the guy is not the right guy for me.
     
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    addicted to porn and sex...
     
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    Just lately, (spring time is killer around here) I've been obsessed with sex too...I guess at one point I would have felt guilty about spending all my time on something so 'frivolous,' but lately I say "FUCK IT." (no pun intended)

    I used to be super-ambitious about my job, school, etc., but one day I just woke up and realized I had unrealistic expectations for myself. What's the point in working so hard to have a nice life if you never get to enjoy it?

    The point is sex is something that makes you (and me) happy. Do what makes you happy! God wouldn't have given us these amazing organs if we weren't meant to enjoy them...
     
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    Yes Lee I know what you mean. There's just a lot of times during the day where my mind starts drifting and I start thinking about sex. Usually it's cuz I start thinking about seeing my bf later and what we're gonna do :tongue: . It's def. an addiction or something. If one of us is gone for a couple days it gets worse cuz I think about it more.

     
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    I am so glad to hear about other females who think about sex as frequently as i do. I was wondering today if I was normal. I am divorced but even before had not had any sexual relations in the marraige for seven years. I have met a wonderful guy and we have been seeing each other 8 months and all i think about is sex now. Can't get enough.:biggrin1:
     
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