Occasional depressed mood over not being big

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Does anyone ever get a mild depressed mood for not being well hung? Sometimes I just feel unlucky and then feel sad. It usually doesn't last long - maybe a day or so, and I get on with normal life, but I was wondering if anyone else who isn't really well hung has the kind of feeling. I know there are much more important things in the world to feel sad about but think it kind of got cemented in my mind a long time ago and is hard to shake.
 

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Does anyone ever get a mild depressed mood for not being well hung? Sometimes I just feel unlucky and then feel sad. It usually doesn't last long - maybe a day or so, and I get on with normal life, but I was wondering if anyone else who isn't really well hung has the kind of feeling. I know there are much more important things in the world to feel sad about but think it kind of got cemented in my mind a long time ago and is hard to shake.
I hope that the word depression is an overstatement over this matter, and what you're feeling is disappointment and wishfulness. First of all, you have a really nice cock, thick and with good proportions. I'd definitely would not think of your cock as small, and it's definitely a cock you should be proud of. Secondly, we all have physical attributes that we'd change if we could, such as I wish I was taller, or had a more handsome face, etc etc. I hope you're doing well in all things, and I'm glad that you know that there are more important things.
 

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I hope that the word depression is an overstatement over this matter, and what you're feeling is disappointment and wishfulness. First of all, you have a really nice cock, thick and with good proportions. I'd definitely would not think of your cock as small, and it's definitely a cock you should be proud of. Secondly, we all have physical attributes that we'd change if we could, such as I wish I was taller, or had a more handsome face, etc etc. I hope you're doing well in all things, and I'm glad that you know that there are more important things.

Thank you for your kind and considerate words. Yes I agree my use of the word depression is probably over stated. But I was just being honest that it kind of covers me for a day or so every once in awhile. i get over it and realize how fortunate I am in many ways, including having a nice penis, although not large. Thanks again.
 
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This battle in your head has no basis in the reality of the function of your penis, I hope you know. The amount of people looking for Moby Dick I would imagine is relatively small.

Look at it this way: my breasts attract a lot of attention, however, I do not care to be in a relationship if that is the basis of the relationship. I had breast reduction. Does that mean that people think lesser of me now? If so, then I could care less what they think because those are people I do not care to associate with.

Same for weenies. My husband happens have a large weenie. So what? The percentage of use I get from that is such a small amount of my regular life, that if that's all that I'm attracted to then I would only need to see him for a couple of hours every week or so.

You are so much more than what's between your legs, but if your mind is fixated on that then you'll miss out on those who are interested in you.
 
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Does anyone ever get a mild depressed mood for not being well hung? Sometimes I just feel unlucky and then feel sad. It usually doesn't last long - maybe a day or so, and I get on with normal life, but I was wondering if anyone else who isn't really well hung has the kind of feeling. I know there are much more important things in the world to feel sad about but think it kind of got cemented in my mind a long time ago and is hard to shake.
I get that mood sometimes but can’t pin it on anything in particular. Your cock is handsome and rather big from what I can see.
 

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I'm hung like a chipmunk, but make up for it in the looks, body, athletic, confidence, and personality departments. I wouldn't change a thing. Life's been good.

I'm sure if you polled the one hundred happiest men in the world,* very few would boast a huge penis. They'd attribute their happiness to a lot of other things. When Lou Gehrig made that claim at home plate in Yankee Stadium, I doubt whether phallic prowess had anything to do with it.





* That would include me! :D
 

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Does anyone ever get a mild depressed mood for not being well hung? Sometimes I just feel unlucky and then feel sad. It usually doesn't last long - maybe a day or so, and I get on with normal life, but I was wondering if anyone else who isn't really well hung has the kind of feeling. I know there are much more important things in the world to feel sad about but think it kind of got cemented in my mind a long time ago and is hard to shake.


It would appear that both you and @blkcocktail are fixated on something that neither of you, or any of the rest of us had a say in.

What is important about the penis is this. It works as it should. Gets hard, shoots off, and you can pee with it. If you can do those things you've got plenty to be thankful for.

Trust me there are men out there that cannot achieve an erection. Be glad you can. It's not the size as much as it is that you know what you're doing with it and how to use it to satisfy your partner. Your being confident in yourself and your ability to use the tool you have to the best of your ability. It's all about the attitude, the confidence you have in yourself.

Look at it like this: what if you didn't have what you've got. It can always be worse.
It's only normal for guys to wish they had a bigger dick. Even guys with really big dicks wish they were bigger.

There is so much more to life and relationships than what you have in your pants. Best advice or suggestion I could give you is to stop stressing over something that none of us have control over. Good luck.
 

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I think we all have our pity parties for brief periods, whether it is about a job, a head of hair, a nice home, perfect job or dick size. As long as we snap out of it and perhaps even chuckle at ourselves in retrospect, I think all is good. But when folks live in that pity and genuinely feel like victims, an intervention is needed. The grass is always greener somewhere else, but in the end, we all got to mow that lawn!
 

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Does anyone ever get a mild depressed mood for not being well hung? Sometimes I just feel unlucky and then feel sad. It usually doesn't last long - maybe a day or so, and I get on with normal life, but I was wondering if anyone else who isn't really well hung has the kind of feeling. I know there are much more important things in the world to feel sad about but think it kind of got cemented in my mind a long time ago and is hard to shake.
I saw your post and I understand where you coming from, trust me. I spent many years wishing i was taller, better looking, more athletic, bigger penis(i am black..u know the whole myth about BM), but you have to understand, and I am sure you do. When we are standing up and looking down at our penis we are prejecting what we think we see, and what is actually there. You have so many other things to be grateful for and I would say to you. Find a hobby, enjoy doing something that would give you joy. Find substance in your life. Don't fret over things you can't change. Life is meant to be lived, trust me. I had to learn it, took me a long time to figure it out, but I am here. Listen, you have so much to look forward to and not worry over the size of your penis. You want someone to love you for you(ALL OF YOU), spirit, soul, body etc.. Ok, I want to see you happy friend.
 

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Penis size has nothing to do with why we are in relationships. I was stupid in my youth and asked my x if she had been with a huge guy and it bummed me out for a lo g years. He was supposedly 10 inches and thick as a beer can. I went on for a few years accepted it then she started emailing him and wanted to end it with me. I contacted his wife and found out that way that he was probably smaller than me but my x had misperceptions based on her fantasy. Time can heal but it can also mislead our perception of reality.
Dont be like me accept who you are and if your significant other has a problem with it FIND SOMEONE ELSE.
 
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