Odd masturbation issue

Kimahri

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Hey guys.

I've read on here a couple different times that too frequent masturbation can cause problems in relationships do to a couple of things. So, I'm a little confused as to what's going on. Recently a lot of stress was removed from me and things are getting better. I'm noticing problems getting off by porn, but when I'm playing with my partner I'm finding I'm getting close to blowing without touching myself (haven't quite been successful doing it yet..still working on it) and when I do get off manually, it's quite a bit better than it was before.

I'm sure this has occurred with others but I don't see it documented any where near as much as the other way around. I'm curious about the dynamics that might cause this. Not unhappy in the least, just wondering what may have occurred.
 

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Just to be clear, you're trying to get off without being touched, right? It's not like you're lasting too long with porn, but having trouble controling yourself with a partner?