Looking is not hostile. Constantly staring is
No, its not. We stare at the things we find beautiful, alluring, or attractive.
We also stare at train-wrecks.
That is not hostile if it does not escalate to the point of imposing your attention or presence on someone else. ( like stalking... like repeatedly getting up to follow someone to the copy machine room... or sit with someone uninvited in the break-room )
Hostile is for eyeball police to be making everyone in an office second guess every direction in which they swivel their eyes.
Its the implied threat to your livelihood of having some narcissistic shit make a federal case out of the fact that they can't bear to be looked at by someone they don't
intend to be looking.
The idea that everyone else in the world has to toe the line drawn by the most easily offended twit in their midst.
You don't have a right to live your life unoffended. Not even at work.
And sexual harassment requires some overt act of Harassment.
e.g. Asking a coworker out, with either work related inducement, or threat, is harassment.
And asking a person to stop merely looking at a coworker when they walk by, with the implied threat of job compromising complaint, is JUST as harassing.
This reminds me of those facially tattooed and pierced fucks who act all pissed when they catch you staring at them...
Everyone wants to feel attractive... and some asshole who happens to BE attractive is whining about what?
... that he doesn't want
certain kinds of people to find him attractive?
My heart bleeds for this pour soul's suffering.
tell him to do what the rest of us do to stop folks staring... get fat and go bald.