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Maybe I’m just paranoid or nutz! I use to get the feeling my partner cheated on me. Maybe once or twice, so as nuts as I am. LOL! I said to the universe one day if he did let someone out of the blue approach me for sex. No I live in a very suburban area, 99% married families. So it’s not anywhere near the gayest of areas nor is it swingtown either. At least out in the open. One day a repair man for the water company came to the house, when I opened the door I expected a typical repairman. You know older, overweight, dirty from the days job. When I open the door this very handsome, in shape, 30ish guy is there. I let him in the house and he is very chatty and eyeing me. I’m no Brad Pitt but I’m get told I’m very handsome often. He is definitely giving me the look of let’s fuck!
Now is this just coincidence or did the universe answer my calling? And I did nothing with this guy, but when he was leaving he lingered and was making very strong eye contact as to say let me back in and let’s...
 

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To cheat or not to cheat: Only you can answer that.

From your post, you did in an indirect way. While you wanted to do so, you did not do it. It was the thought of retribution driving you here. That is most understandable.

From the subtext, I can infer that you have no intention of ending the relationship over infidelity. That too, is only something that you can judge.

Good luck to you.
 

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Maybe I’m just paranoid or nutz! I use to get the feeling my partner cheated on me. Maybe once or twice, so as nuts as I am. LOL! I said to the universe one day if he did let someone out of the blue approach me for sex. No I live in a very suburban area, 99% married families. So it’s not anywhere near the gayest of areas nor is it swingtown either. At least out in the open. One day a repair man for the water company came to the house, when I opened the door I expected a typical repairman. You know older, overweight, dirty from the days job. When I open the door this very handsome, in shape, 30ish guy is there. I let him in the house and he is very chatty and eyeing me. I’m no Brad Pitt but I’m get told I’m very handsome often. He is definitely giving me the look of let’s fuck!
Now is this just coincidence or did the universe answer my calling? And I did nothing with this guy, but when he was leaving he lingered and was making very strong eye contact as to say let me back in and let’s...

This has to be the most self serving delusion I have read in years.
You not only want to cheat on your mate- you want him to DESERVE to be cheated on by creating a belief that he cheated first.

Thru making up magical shit that does not exist.


If you're going to act like a turd, go lie in the yard with all the other turds.
But the Universe must love me very much to have made sure I am not your partner.
 
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To cheat or not to cheat: Only you can answer that.

From your post, you did in an indirect way. While you wanted to do so, you did not do it. It was the thought of retribution driving you here. That is most understandable.

From the subtext, I can infer that you have no intention of ending the relationship over infidelity. That too, is only something that you can judge.

Good luck to you.
Well thank you for the only mature response!
 

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This has to be the most self serving delusion I have read in years.
You not only want to cheat on your mate- you want him to DESERVE to be cheated on by creating a belief that he cheated first.

Thru making up magical shit that does not exist.


If you're going to act like a turd, go lie in the yard with all the other turds.
But the Universe must love me very much to have made sure I am not your partner.
:joy::joy::joy::joy::joy::joy:
 
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"Very well; still, it is I myself, in every case, who have to interpret the signs. While I was imprisoned, I made the acquaintance of a somewhat remarkable man, a Jesuit, who had become a member of that order in the following manner. In his life he had suffered a succession of rather severe setbacks. His father had died when he was a child, leaving him in poverty, and he had been awarded a free scholarship in a religious institution, where he had been made continually to feel that he was accepted for charity’s sake, and, in consequence, he had been denied several of those distinctions and honours which gratify children. Later, about the age of eighteen, he came to grief in a sentimental affair; and finally, at twenty-two – this was a trifle in itself, but it was the last drop that overflowed his cup – he failed in his military examination. This young man, then, could regard himself as a total failure: it was a sign – but a sign of what? He might have taken refuge in bitterness or despair. But he took it – very cleverly for him – as a sign that he was not intended for secular success, and that only the attainments of religion, those of sanctity and of faith, were accessible to him. He interpreted his record as a message from God, and became a member of the Order. Who can doubt but that this decision as to the meaning of the sign was his, and his alone? One could have drawn quite different conclusions from such a series of reverses – as, for example, that he had better become a carpenter or a revolutionary. For the decipherment of the sign, however, he bears the entire responsibility."

(Jean-Paul Sartre, "Existentialism Is a Humanism")
 

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Was the thrill of an affair enough ? Did the thrill confirm your attractiveness ?
If you cheat on your boyfriend your life will be different forever. You will not
trust your boyfriend because you cannot trust yourself.
Ask you bf if he has ever cheated first, before moving forward with a quickie.
 

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The Gay Bible saith: If you even look at another man with lust you've committed adultery.:cool:

You're doomed!;)

See you in heaven if you make the list.:joy: