Offers of money for sex? Is this common?

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Years ago, I was once offered a role in a porn film - so technically I was offered money for sex. I declined the offer. If I was a starving college student, I may have taken the money. Glad I turned down the offer, because I would not want any kind of porn role affecting my reputation today.
 

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I have been offered money in exchange for my body (in one way or another) on many occasions, whether it be in person or over the internet. Sometimes it has been quite large sums of money on offer, have any of you experienced this? Should I be surprised by this or am I just being naive? It is flattering but at the same time puzzles me. I haven't accepted any of these offers but can't help but wonder, what if I did accept?

All responses are greatly appreciated! :smile:

Never happened to me! ;p Not really surprised it has to you though.. ;)
Don't know how I'd react really, think I'd be flattered, but if it happened like someone else wrote, them leaving money behind or something - I'd probably feel a bit.. filthy.. or used. :/
 

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when I was 19, I was offered $10k to NOT have sex with a young lady by her father. he wanted me gone. I turned the money down, and of course, kept fucking her. he backed off, and within a few months we stopped seeing each other. then a couple yrs went by, and we saw each other for a weekend in the summer. we both had someone else, but we still fucked. the look on her daddy's face. I thought the guy was gonna burst.
 

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I've had older men (in their 50s or older) out of no where offer to take care of me in exchange for spending time with them (obviously sexual). I've always declined.
 
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I have not been offered money for sex, but I did have a buxom cheerleeder student say, "I would do anything to make sure I get a good grade in your class." "I can't lose my scholarship," she said. She was such a hottie, blonde long hair, stacked, very athletic-- oh and 19. I had to work really hard not to bite my lip.
 

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when I was 19, I was offered $10k to NOT have sex with a young lady by her father. he wanted me gone. I turned the money down, and of course, kept fucking her. he backed off, and within a few months we stopped seeing each other. then a couple yrs went by, and we saw each other for a weekend in the summer. we both had someone else, but we still fucked. the look on her daddy's face. I thought the guy was gonna burst.
shoulda kept the money
 

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This really has happened to a surprising number of people!

Yep, I think it's fairly common...at least here in Los Angeles. I have been offered money for sex mostly. Not so much for "my body". I mean, what would they do with my body anyway besides wanting it for sex? All the offers have been from older men who want me to have sex with them or with their wives or girlfriends, while they watch. I've never done it obviously but i understand the motivation. It's a fantasy that guys have had that they've never been able to fulfill in their actual lives, so it's a way to get off in that particular way. The strangest offer I had was from a business partner of my dad's. He had been drinking and wanted to hook me up with his wife. It was very awkward.
 

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Is it the religion thing that makes it difficult to accept money for sex? How we have been indoctrinated about sex and sin?

Do you get hung up about the car mechanic submitting a bill to you for servicing the car?

Do you get hung up about paying to take a date for dinner and then sex might happen? have you not paid for sex with the dinner or been paid if you are the date?

Have you ever put your cock through a glory hole and been blown? You don't know who is on the otherside, could be a total munter (ugly pig). You can go to a room and close your eyes and think of something erotic (me!) whilst an ugly blows you...

If you enjoy sex, or not, and someone offers you money for your cock for an hour or 2 why not take the money as a 'bonus`payment? You don't have to keep it, you can give it away to charity like the earlier poster said he did.

Or in these difficult financial times (thanks to the real whores - the bankers - who really screw us all for money) take the money for sex and clear any debts. Repay mortgage quicker with money from sex. Screw the banker for a change. Debt repaid quicker, means we pay the banker less interest!! Or we can have a great holiday somewhere.

So, if I was offered money for sex, I would take it and say 'thanks, lets do it again sometime' and build an enjoyable second income on my terms when I wanted.

Would I feel dirty about it, no, not on my terms, it's not as though I would be kerb crawling or selling cock, ass or mouth for drugs, I would do it for me for the sex I wanted.

And yes a lot more sex selling happens than anyone realises as you are discovering on this post.

Brinz
 

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Yeah, when I was in my 20s and better looking than most it happened regularly. I've always worked, so I've always had money and therefore politely declined. In college I had a professor proposition me. That completely blew my mind that he'd do that, but still didn't take him up on the offer. I was was very naive. Looking back, there were so many encounters I read the wrong way (or didn't want to see the real motivations of why what was happening was happening). I try not to judge too much, everyone makes their own bed, just be safe.
 

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Is it the religion thing that makes it difficult to accept money for sex? How we have been indoctrinated about sex and sin?

Do you get hung up about the car mechanic submitting a bill to you for servicing the car?

Do you get hung up about paying to take a date for dinner and then sex might happen? have you not paid for sex with the dinner or been paid if you are the date?

Have you ever put your cock through a glory hole and been blown? You don't know who is on the otherside, could be a total munter (ugly pig). You can go to a room and close your eyes and think of something erotic (me!) whilst an ugly blows you...

If you enjoy sex, or not, and someone offers you money for your cock for an hour or 2 why not take the money as a 'bonus`payment? You don't have to keep it, you can give it away to charity like the earlier poster said he did.

Or in these difficult financial times (thanks to the real whores - the bankers - who really screw us all for money) take the money for sex and clear any debts. Repay mortgage quicker with money from sex. Screw the banker for a change. Debt repaid quicker, means we pay the banker less interest!! Or we can have a great holiday somewhere.

So, if I was offered money for sex, I would take it and say 'thanks, lets do it again sometime' and build an enjoyable second income on my terms when I wanted.

Would I feel dirty about it, no, not on my terms, it's not as though I would be kerb crawling or selling cock, ass or mouth for drugs, I would do it for me for the sex I wanted.

And yes a lot more sex selling happens than anyone realises as you are discovering on this post.

Brinz

I see your point and you are welcome to do whatever you wish with your body, my reasoning for not accepting money in return for sexual favours has more to do with wanting to share my body with someone special, who I am at least attracted to, rather than a complete stranger who offers me money for my 'services'. A car mechanic is performing a service not an act of passion. They are seperate things as I see it. Perhaps if I were truly desperate for money I would consider doing such a thing, but as I am, I wouldn't even think about it.
 

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In the age of the internet...it's quite common.

We all have different talents in life. I have been fortunate to do well financially and I have used my resources to enjoy something I love many times: Spending time with a nice, well hung guy. I believe way more people have taken money than would ever admit it. In my experience, when both sides get something they want and everyone is polite & respectful it's a WIN-WIN.
 

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In the age of the internet...it's quite common.

We all have different talents in life. I have been fortunate to do well financially and I have used my resources to enjoy something I love many times: Spending time with a nice, well hung guy. I believe way more people have taken money than would ever admit it. In my experience, when both sides get something they want and everyone is polite & respectful it's a WIN-WIN.

If both parties are happy about it, then it becomes much more acceptable to me. It only bothers me because money is thrown at me as though I am an escort, when in fact, I am just a man trying to drink my mineral water in peace. :biggrin1: