Office Attire vs. Play Attire

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rahim: :Di am ra bodobodo i am very large penis if you have the big penis
 
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Never2big: A Large Penis is a thing of beauty. It should be well pleasured and encouraged to spread it's seed as often as possible. A Man showing his manly bulge in a suit is really hot.
 

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[quote author=Never2big link=board=clothing;num=1039540416;start=20#22 date=06/25/03 at 00:53:40]A Large Penis is a thing of beauty.  It should be well pleasured and encouraged to spread it's seed as often as possible. [/quote]

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biggbenn8: re: showing at work...

think I shared this somewhere else but seems apropo for this discussion- many years ago I had a "big" presentation for a client (was very nervous, my first one for a large client) anyhow- I normally wear (with a suit) briefs or boxer briefs to 'hide' (or flatten) my bulge (about 7ish soft) I tend to wear dick on one side, balls on the other... Anyhow- in my nervousness I grabbed boxers and put them on. In the course of the meeting I took of my suit coat. I could 'sense' I had 'lost' the client (he was frowning slightly)...

Anyhow- we all went out for drinks after work (a bar near by was the 'haunt' for my field). With all the nerves I went to use the bathroom, and used a stall... while in there I heard 2 men come in, talking. I recognized one as being 'the client' and he was telling his friend...

"Did you see the bulge that asshole had? Talk about rude! Looked like he was shop lifting a freagin salami" etc....

(I can BET this guy was tiny...) anyhow- I was right....so 'showing' at work CAN be a disadvantage...(small folks can get VERY uptight it seems, tho I agree...the whole 'neutering' thing does seem to happen (think about facial hair and its lack of acceptance...)

my .02 from an old fart
 

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[quote author=rahim link=board=clothing;num=1039540416;start=20#20 date=01/17/03 at 07:17:29] :Di am ra bodobodo i am very large penis if you have the big penis[/quote]

I think rahim is one with his penis.   ;)

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[quote author=biggbenn8 link=board=clothing;num=1039540416;start=20#24 date=06/25/03 at 05:08:25]
so 'showing' at work CAN be a disadvantage...[/quote]

You're absolutely right! Sucessful business meeting involve complex interpersonal communication. There are times when you need to make the client feel superior, times when you need to be peers, and times when you need to be sending dominant signals. Hence all the issues about where people sit around the table, how high the chairs are, and if you should talk seated or standing at the podium, etc.

Being a gay man, my view of this may be a bit biased. However, I am sure that even among heterosexual men penis size becomes a "Dominant Male" issue. As such, flanunting it in any way can send the wrong message during those times when the client needs to feel that you are responding to his needs, and he is boss. On the other hand, after you have reeled him in, presenting a more dominant image can be helpful in negotiations. However, one must be careful not to cross the line between subtle body language and appearing vulgar.
 
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nyc10x6: I am about the same size as gioazam76 - 6 inches soft with huge low hangers - but I have never found clothing to be a problem. I wear loose fitting pants (flat fronts only!) with boxer briefs. My dick is too big to stay upright inside my underwear, so it is always hanging. If the crotch of my pants is low enough no can see any trace of a bulge.

I am not saying that a difficult to hide bulge is a not a problem for many guys. I have noticed how some guys always seem to have a huge bulge, even when I know that are not well-endowed. I think it has to do more with body proportions and the cut of the pants more than cock size. As for showing a bulge in business situations, I don't like to attract attention to "my business." Although I love showing it off in other situations!