OK, I need your guidance please. I just got a new job in an office for a dental insurance company and you could say that this is pretty much my first real office job. Yep, I got my own cubicle with my own desk and chair. I've always been a true professional in all my past jobs no matter how meaningless and small they were. So you can imagine how professional i am with this new one. anyways, my supervisor who interviewed me for the position is a Latin guy with caramel skin and with a husky type of built. During the interview, i noticed that he was intrigued by me but I wasn't like 100% sure. So whatever! i didn't fret about that and eventually I got the job. During the first couple of weeks, i noticed the little special attention he's been giving me. And this is where i need your advice to let me know whether I'm reading too much into it because this is random office etiquette or are my suspicions simply correct that he may have interest in me. He always smiles at me even once he winked at me and it wasn't just a whatever wink. i mean it was one of THOSE winks OK! :wink: I have caught him several times staring at me. He always needs to have conversations next to my cubicle with his co-workers when there is lots of room elsewhere. Even one of the girls noticed and said to me once "OMG you must be soooo sick of out conversations!" and i said nothing. It seems like he likes to show off because his conversations range from body building to other things that i find too private for a supervisor to speak so openly in front of his employee! He even calls on me in the middle of his conversations with the others for no reason really. Oh and yes he is married and his wife works in the same office. i saw her once and noticed how uncomfortable he felt with her around me for some strange reason. I'm basing that on his body language. he also didn't look happy when i found out in front of him that he even had a wife! Also Everytime he walks by my desk he always needs to grab my shoulder or tap my desk to make sure i guess for me to know that he's there. I always thought perhaps it's like a big brother kind of thing and he's just looking out for me. Well until today.... Ok but the big one i think is today which is why i'm making this post. today i ask him to help me out on a dental appointment and he stands behind me right. instead of just standing there or putting his hand on my shoulder or on the chair i'm sitting on, he puts his hand on my shoulder slight scratching it continously while he's showing what to do. Please note that he stopping when he could've at any moment. he just kept on doing it. So what's ur verdict?? That I'm a moron as usual?!? I will admit that i'm somewhat intrigued by him. Physically he isn't my type but i like the fact that in his personality he is both sensitive and assertive.