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for me: none, period.

as a general rule of thumb, i have always told myself that no matter how hot she or he was, if he/she works with me then it's a 100% no-no. my job or career is not worth any piece of ass. it's great when it's great but shit goes south, then one of you or both of you may lose your jobs. not worth it. there's too much ass outside of work to take that risk.

i understand the fetish of it and can relate however i keep that all to the porn and not real life.
 

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It's a pretty hard "no" from me where my actual job is concerned. I do a lot of freelancing and sometimes unexpected people show up in an ensemble where I'm playing or singing, but even then I try not to play sexually with people with whom I work on a regular basis. The most awkward it's ever been was me trying to make a date with a guy a couple years younger than me, him going back and forth and saying yes, then no, and then the next week he walks in for his voice lesson and I'm playing the piano for his teacher that day! But we've worked together just fine since then.
 

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I'm courting the thought of possibly having sex with a supervisor from work. If it happens it won't happen at work. If caught we'd both lose our jobs. It has been a sudden, now slow, amazing process. He finally mentioned a reason for coming over the other day. He's reeling me in. Sometimes slow heat is best.
 

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A number of times when I was young, but most hookups happened away from the workplace. Those with whom I worked daily I avoided including underlings. People who worked in other departments were fair game.
 

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I'm currently married to and very happy with the woman with whom I entered an affair, while we were both at the same company. I'll be the first person to advise against this, as it is indeed a risky venture. At that time in life many years ago, my life was in shambles and more drama wouldn't have added much to the enormous shit pile. But for anyone who's got a fairly okay life going on, a workplace affair is a good way to fuck it up.
 

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How many of you have sex with your co worker?

I have never had sex with co workers and never with those in the neighborhood where I lived or with people that were my friends. I have always looked for and found sex outside those places. Finding sex in those places will usually end in why it was not intended. It makes for a bad relationship with co workers, it makes enemies out of those who were your friends. My neighbors are someone who like to keep as neighbors on friendly terms. You may like other things and you are welcome to that. These are my feeling and thought on these matters.
 

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I had sex with 2 coworkers at 2 different jobs.
The first was a one night stand that I regret, but the second lasted several years & was some of the hottest sex I've ever had.
 
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Personally, I would opt to not have any kind of romance/sex with anyone I work with. I put being professional and ethical as a pretty high priority for myself at any job. If other people choose to behave otherwise, do your thing. Just be aware of the possible negatives that might happen and prepared for potential fall out.
 

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I'm courting the thought of possibly having sex with a supervisor from work. If it happens it won't happen at work. If caught we'd both lose our jobs. It has been a sudden, now slow, amazing process. He finally mentioned a reason for coming over the other day. He's reeling me in. Sometimes slow heat is best.
Make sure you keep us updated.
 

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I'm courting the thought of possibly having sex with a supervisor from work. If it happens it won't happen at work. If caught we'd both lose our jobs. It has been a sudden, now slow, amazing process. He finally mentioned a reason for coming over the other day. He's reeling me in. Sometimes slow heat is best.
Keep us current, Brave.
 
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I had a fuck buddy that got me an interview where he worked. I was hired but we worked in different departments. We rarely spoke to each other at work but once a week we left at the same time and spent an hour or so fucking at his place before I finally headed home.
 

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Once...i did give head to a mgr in another dept in his after 5pm and then ate his ass another time at my apt. Both he and his were/are bi. Another time after a hh...gave head to another dept mgr in the parking lot at 2am...I seriously just thought he wanted to talk to me...lol.
I say just depends...adults are also adults and I for one never thought I would hook up with someone that I worked with ever...but sometimes thing happen...but you should always be careful and judge every situation on its merits. ;)
 

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Once...i did give head to a mgr in another dept in his after 5pm and then ate his ass another time at my apt. Both he and his were/are bi. Another time after a hh...gave head to another dept mgr in the parking lot at 2am...I seriously just thought he wanted to talk to me...lol.
I say just depends...adults are also adults and I for one never thought I would hook up with someone that I worked with ever...but sometimes thing happen...but you should always be careful and judge every situation on its merits. ;)
And pls forgive the bed grammar...sometimes my fingers don't type my complete thoughts... :(
 

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In the late 90s (before surveillance cameras were ubiquitous) I used to bring a fuck buddy the to office to play on weekends when neither of us could host. Fucked him more than a few times on the boardroom table. We’re lucky we didn’t get caught. Also hooked up with an attorney once and fucked him over his desk after hours. I recall we really made a mess with cum everywhere.
 

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I met my 2nd bf while I was working in a bar. At that time, I was working all afternoon and then I would be there most evenings until 2am. That made for a long day with little play at night. On his days off, he started coming to the bar and hanging around with me while I was working. Most days I was the only one there, so we started fucking around at the bar. I am surprised we never got caught, because it was common for people to be coming and going all the time. A few months later, I stopped working the afternoon hours, so I started working at the grocery store that he ran. We messed around a few times in the upstairs employee restroom, but that wasn't real safe, so we started using the abandoned cash office hidden in the backroom. We messed around in there 3 or 4 times a week. There was only one time that we almost got caught, but the door was locked the the 1 window was tinted really dark and with no lights back there, nobody could see anything. We messed around back there for 3 or 4 years until the store closed down.
 

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I'm courting the thought of possibly having sex with a supervisor from work. If it happens it won't happen at work. If caught we'd both lose our jobs. It has been a sudden, now slow, amazing process. He finally mentioned a reason for coming over the other day. He's reeling me in. Sometimes slow heat is best.

Never happened to me personally, but was involved in the fallout of an office romance.

My advice - DO NOT DO IT. Especially you, in the subordinate role, have a lot to lose. If you really are interested, you should move out of the department. I can tell you, it will notednwell. For either one of you. HR moves quickly on these things, especially in today’s hypersensitve environment,