So I wasn't sure where to post this, but this seems as good a place as any. Anyway, I have trouble meeting other guys. I just came out officially a few months ago and have not felt more like myself than at any other time in my life. I was preparing for it for months and finally became comfortable with saying it to myself and it's turned out really well. I've had nothing but support and positive responses. And now I feel I'm ready to actually date someone, but the thing is, I don't know many gay people. My friends are all straight and the gay people I know are just people that come into my work. (I work at a bank so it would be quite inappropriate to talk to customers about sexual orientation). I just want to know how I can meet other gay guys and if not have a relationship, then makes some friends. I don't know how to approach guys and I hardly have an outlet to meet any. I'm just a month shy of 21, but even then so, I'm not into the gay scene and how superficial some guys can be. I don't come off as gay at all when people meet me and I'm not really into feminine guys. I'm a good looking guy by straight standards, but I'm not sure about gay standards (not to sound ignorant, but it's a general point to make this simpler). I like to have a good time out, but I like to be intimate and stay in. How do I find someone I may be interested in or even just find some new friends to help me come out of my shell as a young gay man?