Bluespeedoz
Expert Member
Hi there,
You were the only person there and therefore I think you are the only person who can decide if this incident was harmless or not. Clearly no physical harm to you has occurred but you have nevertheless been left wondering if the guy was harmless or not. So while you do not say so I conclude this guy through his actions has left you with some negative feelings.
You're clearly comfortable being naked around guys - it's great and normal - and this should not change. The guy wouldn't seem to be interested in you as a person but was interested in your cock, it's size, your body and so on. That to a point is normal too but I think his persistent behaviour was unwanted and inappropriate.
You need to look at this incident positively perhaps by taking the view he was envious even jealous of your appearance shape and so on and that he meant no harm.
If however he persists with this behaviour I believe you should re-examine your feelings and challenge him about his behaviour by having a private word with him. Tell him that no matter his motives you find his persistent behaviour unacceptable and that you expect it to stop immediately. I think you'll find he stops.
If he continues to persist or his behavior worsens you may have to consider taking additional action - ie report him to the college authorities or, as I would, resort to physical action.
I hope this helps and that you won't change your outlook on being around naked men in the lockerroom as I think this a very normal situation for guys - str8, bi or gay - to be in.
Mike
You were the only person there and therefore I think you are the only person who can decide if this incident was harmless or not. Clearly no physical harm to you has occurred but you have nevertheless been left wondering if the guy was harmless or not. So while you do not say so I conclude this guy through his actions has left you with some negative feelings.
You're clearly comfortable being naked around guys - it's great and normal - and this should not change. The guy wouldn't seem to be interested in you as a person but was interested in your cock, it's size, your body and so on. That to a point is normal too but I think his persistent behaviour was unwanted and inappropriate.
You need to look at this incident positively perhaps by taking the view he was envious even jealous of your appearance shape and so on and that he meant no harm.
If however he persists with this behaviour I believe you should re-examine your feelings and challenge him about his behaviour by having a private word with him. Tell him that no matter his motives you find his persistent behaviour unacceptable and that you expect it to stop immediately. I think you'll find he stops.
If he continues to persist or his behavior worsens you may have to consider taking additional action - ie report him to the college authorities or, as I would, resort to physical action.
I hope this helps and that you won't change your outlook on being around naked men in the lockerroom as I think this a very normal situation for guys - str8, bi or gay - to be in.
Mike