As a Native, I do understand the denial of each individual to be just that an individual. The tribal expectation that is imposed on many people denies each member of the tribe the right to be an individual. I think it is referred to as tribalism. So we not only have to live up to others expectations, but also to live down to them. It is something about wanting to be accepted. It seems acceptance and recognition is paramount in a tribal community. I get reminded a lot of times that I am one of the tribe and not an individual member of the greater society. The native people define each other and themselves in relation to each other. I DON'T! I am lucky to have lived only 11 of my 46 yrs on my father's reservation. 4 yrs of that was as an employee of the tribe. The other 7 was as a child where I had no control over where I lived. It is not an answer but maybe part of the solution. This solution would be the exact same for all Americans regardless of race or ethnicity. That is to break the cycle the youth need to pursue their education and take advantage of opportunities. If the opportunity is the military, education, or internships elsewhere that is what is needed. To grow, develop and learn a life outside of the native community would be very beneficial. Many may ask, why should I leave my people? Is the goal to make the community more healthy? If that is the goal, new experiences and goals hold the promise of a better future than the present conditions. Does a person loose their Indianess? I don't think so. Look at Oklahoma, many Natives live and work in areas that are not strictly native. We can't all be chiefs, we got to have some braves and warriors. That being said, I haven't always strived for the top job, position, or ever resented taking orders. We need to begin to do things differently than the way they have always been done. That is a part of the answer. The tribe will always be there when you get back. Who knows, a person may serve as a more positive role model.
As far as personal responsibility goes, sure one would expect that there would be some. However, the dysfunctional culture is seeking to assign blame elsewhere. That is a part of the sick dynamic of tribalism. Someone correct me if I am wrong as I am sure that you will. Peace.