So I am a dancer and after one of my recent shows I went out for dinner with my parents. The costumes for the piece are just solid unitards. Its really hard to tell who people are in the piece with the lighting and other elements. I asked what they thought and I was like did you know even which dancer I was on stage. My mother continues to say that she could tell who the guys were and then she goes I know what my son looks like. Then she goes "you were always well endowed". So basically my parents just look for the biggest bulge on stage I have learned to find me lol.