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Sorry guys - but I just needed some thoughts.
Right - I met up with a friend of a friend who had shown some interest.
Had a drink - didn't feel anything besides a physical attraction. But one thing led to another - hotel room blah blah. It seemed nice to me.
I was home and got a msg from him basically referring to my profile on a website. This was it,
---Hey ****,
Thanks for the meet up, I had a nice time.
I think ur really sexy - Just a note though - I think you should specify body-type 'average' - It's better to be on the safe side.
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This REALLY threw me.
He's not responsible for my feelings - but I know my body isn't as good as I'd like - but it is better than 'average'. If I know this - why did it make me so angry and insecure?
Granted as someone who was once overweight... it's probably my biggest single sensitivity. I've worked really REALLY hard to get where I am... and I have some fine tuning to go.
Am I overreacting?
Right - I met up with a friend of a friend who had shown some interest.
Had a drink - didn't feel anything besides a physical attraction. But one thing led to another - hotel room blah blah. It seemed nice to me.
I was home and got a msg from him basically referring to my profile on a website. This was it,
---Hey ****,
Thanks for the meet up, I had a nice time.
I think ur really sexy - Just a note though - I think you should specify body-type 'average' - It's better to be on the safe side.
-------------------------
This REALLY threw me.
He's not responsible for my feelings - but I know my body isn't as good as I'd like - but it is better than 'average'. If I know this - why did it make me so angry and insecure?
Granted as someone who was once overweight... it's probably my biggest single sensitivity. I've worked really REALLY hard to get where I am... and I have some fine tuning to go.
Am I overreacting?