OK, I'm willing to say 50/50.

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by D_Chaumbrelayne_Copprehead, Jan 31, 2009.

  1. D_Chaumbrelayne_Copprehead

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    I've decided to do a 180, and declare my sexuality percentages.

    I'm saying I'm 50/50.

    I fought this for a while. I'm a bi guy, and have felt that to say that being bi equals being this much gay and that much straight doesn't describe what it's like being bisexual.

    Plus, any given day, I might be 70/30 this or 60/40 that.

    But what the hell. It says I'm open to lots of possibilities, and that's OK with me!
     
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    I respect that.:smile:
     
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    sticking with my 80/20 for now. further study and experimentation might swing it closer to 50/50.

    nothing but respect for ya declaration and ya orientation.

    ML
     
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    hey gurl heeyyy! lol. lemme get dat numba :) j/k or am i?...:spankme:
     
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    studies have shown:
    most humans are sexual
    most men identify with mostly straight OR mostly gay
    most women identify with straight, gay AND both

    Not ALL, but MOST.

    I rarely believe a man when he states he is bisexual. Far too many societal inhibitions for men to deal with to be blunt and 100% honest. Men have a very hard time overcoming a patriarchal society's stigmas. That of appearing vulnerable: were it emotional, socioeconomic, physical or a varying mix of these.
    Maybe men are, or would be more apt to express, bisexuality if tractor-pulls, ties (like a hang mans noose) and weapons weren't so deeply ingrained in the "norm" behavior.
     
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    I have days when I notice every pair of tits coming at me.

    I have other days when I am scoping out every guy's crotch that walks my way.

    The days change back and forth for me.
     
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    Me, I'm noticing your "so nerdy it's sexy" avatar.

    NCbear (who enjoys reading your posts, krispdx)
     
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    Taking into account the law of averages from what you have said. 50/50 would sound about right. Besides being 50/50 you can equally enjoy the best of both worlds. Does being 50/50 qualify you or deem you as AC/DC.

    What does it matter to anyone else whether your 90/10% 60/40% or 99/1% So long as your happy & comfortable with the fact. thats all that really matters
     
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    Yes!!! We are who we are. This is the only life we get. Fuckin' LIVE it!!! :arms:
     
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    Those are some truly excellent "half-eaten mutton-chops" he's sporting, there. . .
     
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    thks guys!!! i don't even remember having that pic taken, which means it must be 1970-something ...
     
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    How do we know the responses in the studies aren't tainted by the same stigmas of the same patriarchal society that you say prevents men from being honest?

    But I do know what you mean. I like guys more than women, although I'm married to a woman. The partnership I have is about much more than sex, and the companionship is deep and important, but in my pervy moments, I miss sex with a guy. But we all make choices when we settle down -- if we settle down, that is -- no matter whether we identify with gay, str8, or bi.

    I've been thinking of upping my "gay" meter to 80. lol
     
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    All respect to everyone above...but, must say it will be a great day when when we don't feel the need to discuss this anymore...
     
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    I agree.
     
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    Not gonna happen. There will always be men who prefer women, exclusively; men who prefer men, exclusively; and men who have no preference. [Same goes for women] And as such, there will always need to be a way to refer to them, separately.

    The labels are there for a purpose. At best we can hope the negative connotations and nefarious purposes will vanish in time.
     
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    Thanks Bi-I-Bro! So......uhhhh...............does the team shower together? :wink::smile:
     
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    well - OK Kris. good for you.
    as long as you are happy and
    satisfied then great. if we should
    all be so lucky.
     
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    That's the day I want to meet you coming down the sidewalk.

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    Follow-up from the OP:


    Damn, if I had known that declaring sexuality percentages would have gotten me this many hot offers from other members here, I would have done it a long time ago ... :yumyum:
     
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