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No man even attempted nipple play on me until my forties. At first I hated it, but to please my partner (he loved giving and receiving nipple stimulation), I practiced masturbating while stimulating my own. I eventually grew to love it, but only if I were already hard. When hard, he could do anything to them, but when soft, he couldn't touch them, especially after sex.

Now I almost require it during sex.
 

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I've been with a few men that actually asked me to pinch and twist their nips...I was particularly into that but I do like to lick, suck and bite them.
 

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I feel like I've disappointed my current partner in this area because I've always found the sensation to be non-existent. It's kinda weird, if someone drew a line across my chest with their finger I'd know where my nips were because they'd be the spots with no sensation. However I love having my pecs touched and massaged as Petite described.
 

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I've spent the last 10 years telling myself to avoid them at all costs, so I honestly after all that time couldn't tell you about my previous thoughts or experiences.

My husband has some form of mental issue when it comes to his nipples. It ranges to anything from the wrong fabric brushing against them to accidentally touching one while wiggling in bed... Enough to send him into the foulest of moods. There's no doubt in my mind that if I for some very odd reason decided to touch one on purpose, he'd kill me for it! :eek:

this is funny. i feel exactly the same way! even with the wrong fabric, gives me shivers... like the "boo" anecdote as well.
 

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Do you get how weird that seems to someone who likes feet?


Yeah, no, I totally get how weird that is for feet-lovers I've had sex with plenty of guys who were into feet who I've had to disappoint with my aversion to all things below the ankle.




In my early days of being sexually active, I experimented with the nipples of several partners (or tried to). Everyone I attempted nipple play with said they didn't like it and asked me not to go there. Eventually I gave up. I haven't even bothered trying in many years. And not one man has ever expressed a desire for me to touch their nipples.


Very interesting so perhaps having started by thinking this could be something gay men and straight women don't have in common perhaps it's actually something straight men and gay don't have in common....

Perhaps the suprise and pleasure that "straight" men I've had sex with who enjoyed nipple play for the first time was also combined with the shock of having enjoyed something they'd never thought they did or would enjoy....
 

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On the one occasion someone tried giving more than a moment's attention to my nipples, I seem to remember being largely bemused. Heck, even writing that sentence seems a little weird to me.

I don't know why, really. There might be some kind of ingrained psychological reason, I mean It's not exactly a typically masculine response for a guy to go weak at the knees when someone touches their nipples, but maybe that's just my experience.
 

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Welcome back, petite!


About nipple play, what Aramis said above refers to me, of course. I just can't help myself when it comes to those tiny targets, so even if he's not feeling much from it, I still enjoy myself playing with the nips. :biggrin1:
 

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Gods yes...I zone in on nipples because being so short they are normally at eye level when I stand flat footed in front of most guys.

Love giving nipple play and I find that if I get a little rough with the edges of my teeth it tends to sensitize them and they (the nipples) will respond quicker to a swipe of the tongue and a strong jet of air being blown across them.

Cloths pins work a treat as well for focusing a man on his nips.
 

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Gods yes...I zone in on nipples because being so short they are normally at eye level when I stand flat footed in front of most guys.

Love giving nipple play and I find that if I get a little rough with the edges of my teeth it tends to sensitize them and they (the nipples) will respond quicker to a swipe of the tongue and a strong jet of air being blown across them.

Cloths pins work a treat as well for focusing a man on his nips.


Have you ever been with a guy who really wasn't in to it?
 

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Have you ever been with a guy who really wasn't in to it?


Yes..but it depends on the circumstances of the session.
If he a sub and I got him cuffed down well it's just bad luck.


If it's a vanilla session then you just shrug your shoulders and move on.
There are so many erogenous zones on a persons body that not having nipple play on the menu should hardly matter.
 

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Yes..but it depends on the circumstances of the session.
If he a sub and I got him cuffed down well it's just bad luck.


If it's a vanilla session then you just shrug your shoulders and move on.
There are so many erogenous zones on a persons body that not having nipple play on the menu should hardly matter.


Oh absolutely no doubt. I'm just wondering if straight guys tend to be less into it, as some of the other female member's posts were hinting at....

Oh and bad luck or ver very very good luck? :wink:
 

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Egads you're right! Thinking back... I can't think of one straight guy I've been with who enjoyed his nipples being played with! This has never occurred to me. The bi guys - I believe that they did enjoy it. I can't believe this has never occurred to me before.

In my early days of sex - I tried to do nipple play with guys. Not into it at all - they expressed distaste for the whole thing. So when invited to play... I'm right there. But when I think about it - those invitations were fairly few and limited to bi lovers.
 

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All of my lovers and boyfriends loved it very much..could even feel them get harder once i touched them while he's fucking me..

and all very straight men..
Have never ever thought that they might find that uncomfortable..

Now..a finger up their ass..that's seen by many as something they will not go for..(not all)
 

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All of my lovers and boyfriends loved it very much..could even feel them get harder once i touched them while he's fucking me..

and all very straight men..
Have never ever thought that they might find that uncomfortable..

Now..a finger up their ass..that's seen by many as something they will not go for..(not all)

:biggrin1: Oh boy. I can understand the finger up the ass thing, but I really need to mentally prepare for that one, or I go :eek:
 

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With any new relationship I always try sucking and licking my guy's nipples combined with massaging his pecs simply because it's something that I love to have done to me. If he seems like he's enjoying the sensations then I make sure to incorporate nipple play as an ongoing stimulus, but now that I think back on it I cannot recall any of the guys ever saying anything like 'stop' or 'don't stop' which I guess means that it was okay but maybe nothing great.