Alrighty, so I have been talking to this girl for a while. She says she wants to get a day where she has the whole day to do nothing and spend that time with me. She says she wants to have sex and she hopes I'm good lol. I think the plan is to pretty much chill at her place, watch movies, have sex, she wants to cook I guess, hopefully more sex and just cuddle and watch movies. Thats pretty much what I would love to do, I like to chill and just be close with my girl, and she says that exactly how she is so we like match and stuff lolz ^_^. I figure I'll say what I want to try to do (for the sex part obviously, i cant cook too well yet . ), and any ladies out there give me some tips on how not to be a fool or something. So heres how I see it going, we start off kissing and such. I think I'm a good kisser actually, well I think I'm a very good kisser, but I could be wrong. Anyways, we kiss and make out. I'll start feeling her up, squeezing and rubbing/massaging pretty much any part of her body (i like boobs, butt, hips, stomach, back, legs, hmmm, i want to touch everything! lol. Anyways, I want to get on top of her, while kissing long and slow, and just running my hands over her. I know how to dry hump, I think thats a good idea, it will get her wet and stuff right? I can start to finger her thru her pants or w/e she is wearing, kiss her, put her hands on my cock and stuff. Do that for a while, eventually clothes will come off, (i hope!) At this point I can touch her skin and do pretty much what i was doing before but with clothes off! Much better right? Ill suck her nipples or bite them if she likes that. Ok, I'm not sure how to transition, but eventually i want to give her oral. I have only done oral like twice, lol. But I think Ill pretty much make out with her pussy kinda like her mouth. But ill suck gently on her clit, and kiss and rub her vulva or w/e its called with my lips and lick her also. Also I will try to push my tongue inside her pussy I think girls like that lol. After a bit of that, I'll stick my finger in there and slowly rub her g-spot while doing what I was doing before. (i know very well where the g-spot is, my last girlfriend loved for me to finger her and she would flip out while i did it, it was great fun!). But for this girl I dont want to straight up finger her and make her cum before I have sex with her, Or should I? Should I make her come orally before we sex or no? The only reason I say no is i figured I could like, ramp it up, if that makes sense. Just like get her hotter and hotter, and when we finally have sex it will be better that if I hadnt done these things. I figure if i make her come orally then we sex, then it wont be as good. After some oral, and playing ill ask her if she is ready! If yes, then I'm not sure what to do. Should I do missionary? I figured I would do that, while kissing her and holding her hips tight and just fucking her really slowly. Like pull my cock out as far as I can and slowly push it in while flexing it to make it a lil bigger ya know? Since its my first time in a long time I'll probably cum really fast, but thats ok, because i know i can pretty much take off the condom, squeeze out the remaining come, put on a new condom and get hard again before I lose my boner. After that I should be fine to last for a while. Does anybody have tips on positions where we can kiss alot other than missionary? I want it to be sensual, and I want our bodies to be together and us to kiss alot, I really love that Idea and when I told her that she said thats exactly how she likes it too. So I'm not sure when to varry up the speed or rhythm or whatever, but I know i have to listen to her sounds and respond to that, if she is moaning more and making more cute noises ill keep doing what I'm doing. if it does not look like shes having much fun Ill change it up a bit, like go faster or maybe change position (I need tips on intimate positions!) I have a bunch of ideas for stuff but I don;t know what already works, so I don't wanna look stupid trying to do something thats hard to do or cant even be done without alot of difficulty. So yea...what do you think? Will I make her night? I hope so!