There’s a guy I’ve been trying to hook up with at my gym sauna. I suspect he is ftm trans. I go to a gym with open showers and he’s grabbed my cock there before when we’ve showered together, and have tried to make something happen in the steam room but the timing hasn’t been right. The thing is, I’ve shown him my dick a lot, but he never shows me his and goes to great lengths to cover himself when he’s showering or putting on his towel. Also in the steam room he never grabs his dick to get himself hard. I have a hard time believing he’s that shy about his dick after our experiences together or that he’s such an extreme bottom. Also we have been seeing each other at another location of our gym that has shower stalls where we’ve showered kiddy corner to each other and he’s watched me through our open curtains, but again he never lets me see the front side of his body. I’m totally OK with him being a trans guy. He is still a sexy dude to me either way. So it wouldn’t change much for me to have a confirmation from him. But I’m wondering if it would be OK for me to ask if he’s trans anyways, so I can let him know that I’m OK with it and he doesn’t have to be so careful around me about trying to hide himself.