are invited to and get to go to a group meeting. you arrive and find there ar 9 males present and that's all that indicated so and the door is being locked and wont be answered. everyone is told to please strip and when that is done it's announced one member has offered to provide visual pleasure for all by allowing to be front and center if those who agreed to put on a condom he would suck them for all to watch as the jo. should he chill and just jo with others? also is it ok to ask to jo someone or how do you approach that?