Okay to watch cocks sometimes?

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  1. sexophone

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    I'm straight and love girls but I also sometimes like to look at dicks. I would love to try a circle jerk, does this make me gay? Am I okay?
    Oh yeah and I have watched gay porn
     
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    You are okay and bicurious
     
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    Sex is sex is sex
     
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    Watching cock is now 'bicurious'? How? He didn't say he wants to suck one.
     
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    That's bisexual.
     
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    It doesn't mean a damn thing. You are a guy, guys by nature are curious about what other guy's are packin'. That's a side effect of testosterone--it makes you competitive and sometimes you like the competition.
     
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    No comepetition here..
     
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    I agree. In my book you're normal and simply bicurious. I've engaged in MFM sex (tho I much prefer FMF sex), but the other guy and I never touched or did anything with each other's cocks. Except for a little DP, its always been on the vanilla side. Same is true for the circle jerks with my uninhibited buds in H.S. and college; never jerking each other off or dumping loads on each other. The last thing in this world that I'd want to do is suck or fuck another guy or even cuddle, hug or kiss another guy....absolutely no desire. Hell, I'm not even sure if I'm bicurious and the other guys cock fail to excite me. Have no problem in separating my emotional needs from simple sexual desires to get off. Another thing I really hate are the attempts by others to put people in confined boxes (be it gay, straight, bi)...life's more complicated than that and my fetishes, desires, and the fact that I'm an uninhibited, exhibitionist probably don't mirror those of a lot of other straight guys. Also realize that most of the opinions (including mine) won't get you a free ride on the Metro. But then, again, who really gives a shit.
     
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    everyone is curious. i like to see big cocks on here. i wouldnt think anything of it. Am i going to leave my Gf because i saw some cock on here i like? hell no, pussy wins everytime. if you worry about it it will manifestate into something you dont like. if you let it be then yopu will have fun simple as.
     
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    It is perfectly OK. You don't have to care about the labels and judgement.
     
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    I really find the question a little difficult to understand. You think the behaviour is ok provided it doesn't mean you are no longer straight. Am I miising something or is there a flaw in your logic?

    You seem to be concerned about your behaviour, thoughts or feelings because it might mean you are 'gay' or 'bi' or not 'straight'. Might mean in your words that you are not 'okay'.

    Watching gay porn does not make you gay or mean that you are gay. Wanting to watch gay porn might mean that you are gay. What I don't understand is why you are concerned about a lable. The label after all doesn't change what you are just how others want to clasify you.

    Either you think it is ok to look at cocks or you don't think it is okay. If you don't think it is okay you should stop but you shouldn't stop because it might mean you are gay.
     
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    Too many guys on this site are so hung up on the guilt of having any sexual attraction to men, no matter how small. Just be comfortable with who you are and so long as no body is getting hurt, enjoy what ever tickles your fancy. It doesn't make you gay or bi. Only you can deside that for your self. And if you did come to the conclusion that you are not 100% straight as an arrow so fucking what, there is no shame in that, be proud of who you are and enjoy it to the max.

    ( And come on! gay porn is fucking great. I urge all men to sample some. Seeing two fit young bodies having such intermate contact is hot no matter what sex the might be)
     
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    Any guy that says they aren't curious is lying.
     
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    I'm straight!
    Am I gay?

    I'm straight!
    Am I gay? Am I okay?

    ARE YOU OKAY?????????????

    does it occur to you that's an offensive question? It suggests that if you were gay you would NOT be okay!

    Stay straight. Please!
     
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    I've been happily married for 25 years and for the past three years I have found an interest in watching well hung men. I find guys like that sexually arousing but I am not interested in physical contact. I don't give a shit what anyone else thinks as long as it makes me happy.
     
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    Lots of good answers two your question. It's not the end of the world if you end up being bi or even gay. Just requires a little attitude adjustment. Don't sweat it a whole lot.
     
  18. D_Cock_Hudson

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    Nothing wrong with looking sometimes. I have done so for many years, from when at school to recently.
     
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