Old Folk and Sex

Discussion in 'Et Cetera, Et Cetera' started by B_lilylabia, Mar 6, 2008.

  1. B_lilylabia

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    I can't imagine there being a time in my life when I stop having and enjoying sex.

    That got me wondering how many members of LPSG are over 70 years old?

    I found an incredible photo of an elderly lady with a dildo up her pussy and I must admit, I was mildly shocked!

    I don't know why really - I suppose it's a bit like when you're a kid and you first discover that your parents actually do have sex and it seems repulsive, but to imagine your old granny masturbating - well, that's something else!

    Lily:eek:
     
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    Uh... just because you stopped believe you're parents are having sex doesn't mean that grandma and grandpa did too.
     
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    The idea of old people getting it on makes me very hopeful. I too can't imagine not having sex any more.
     
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    I once spent a vacation at a hotel in Key West in the room next to a couple that had been together for 45 years. Couple nights I went for a walk because the headboard was banging so hard against the wall.

    I know the grandparents were getting it on into their 80's, so I'm holding out hope that I'll be just as active then.
     
  5. whatireallywant

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    Yep, me too - I have to make up for the lack of sex when I was young!!! :eek:
     
  6. B_lilylabia

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    I agree totally.

    I mean I'm very close to an aunt of mine who's in her late 70s and she has told me about the "incredible orgasms" she experiences sometimes, so I'm not so naive as to think that sex does not feature in old age - I think I was just surprised to find such a graphic image on the web of such a normal-looking granny with a dildo between her legs - she was snoozing too, as if she was worn out by the whole episode - it's just such a bizarre image!

    Lily
     
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    My grandparents had a healthy and active sex life through their 90s until my grandfather passed away.
     
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    Why should our appetite for sex be any less than our appetite for food? Basically we eat to live and we live to fuck? We definitely weren&#8217;t put hear to work 9 &#8211;5 for others only interested in profit margins.
     
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    Wow, that's going some!

    It must have been terribly lonely for your grandmother after having had all that wonderful time together - it's always so sad for the partner who's left behind, but she must have had some very happy memories!

    Lily
     
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    It is difficult for her. She declined rapidly after he passed away. Has given up hope and is frequently in states of dementia though sometimes she's quite lucid. It's sad. I had always hoped, after nearly 70 years of marriage, that they would die together somehow. It just doesn't seem right to have one without the other. They were an amazing pair. Engaged after one week of dating, married three months later.

    They met at a garden party my great-grandmother was hosting but my grandmother was seriously dating another boy at the time. My grandfather asked my grandmother's best friend for help. She told him that they liked to play golf together on Saturdays so my grandfather hopped in his biplane and found them playing golf at the club. He proceeded dump thousands of little flyers, hand-written by he and his sisters, saying, "I love you," on top of them.

    That evening my grandfather took her out to a speakeasy next to a lake in his snazzy green Dodge convertible and they went skinny dipping in the lake.

    They were engaged that evening.

    Together they traveled the world, visited every continent except Antarctica, went to war, raised two kids, and worked endlessly for various civic groups and charities. I miss my grandfather, and the woman my grandmother used to be, immensely.
     
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    agreed - i'm not slowin down ...
     
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    My wife stayed with her grandparents to help out around the house when her grandfather was convalescing after a hospital stay because of foot surgery, grandma was nearly blind from cataracts. I believe they were both 96 at the time. The second night after coming home he went into grandma's room, my wife heard grandma say "The nurses must have gotten you worked up." And then there were appropriate noises from the bedroom. Grandpa died a couple of years later and grandma lived to 102.
     
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    IMHO, sex is more of a celebration of the divine in all of us than any church service. I'm in my 50s, and sex is BETTER for me now than it used to be. Different ... but better. Life is awesome and sex is a big part of it.
     
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    I'll definitely retire, don't know exactly when, but there will be a day ? More than likely when I need Viagra, I refuse to do that drug at that age, it'll be worse than the sex itself as the cause of death ? Little things along the way that I used to be able to do, I no longer do anymore because I can't anymore, basketball, football and so on. Sometimes you have to hang up the past-time, the game has passed you by ?
     
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    Oh, that's quite sad!

    Perhaps as long as you keep your interest in sex going, through participating in forums such as this one at LPSG and looking for input from the numerous sex blogs and adult websites so readily accessible, you may find your sexual desire never wanes! There's always something new and intriguing to discover out there in the virtual world - I learn something new every day!

    Keep it up!

    Lily:kiss:
     
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    Made me think of the chapell show with the old principle and the librarian on top of each other with mayo to make a squishy sound.
     
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    It's not really all that sad, something we all have to acknowledge & accept sooner or later. Take the NY politician, he crusaded against prostitution to build a facade of a career and in the end it was his denouement. In the end you'll wind up paying for it, either it's the viagra, the better looking piece of @ss for inspiration, whatever ! :biggrin1:
     
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