this guy... i went thrugh two schools and college with me. we were mates. but when i was 22 we had a bit of a fling. after many years he spotted me on facebook, so we sort of keep in touch in a lose sense, but he's married now. and i miss being mates but can't be, because i'm an old flame and that wouldn't seem right. does that make sense to anyone, or am i just being odd?