For any of you that have gone thru menapause, I need some help here. Wife is pretty much done with menapuse and sex is now a none issue. One of the results is vaginal dryness and over the last few years she has complained that I was hurting her during sex. The doctors tried to give her medication but nothing helped. The pain was from a thinning of the vaginal walls and thus microscopic taring during penatration. The memory of the pain has completely turned her off to sex. It has been suggested to use lubricants such as Astroglide but she is paranoid about the pain. Anyone got any suggestions on how I can get her to accept intimacy and sex again? This is becoming very frustrating and there has to be something better than Mary Fist.