I think rude but I have to admit if I saw Kalipygian in an open shower I'd have to take a good look but would walk on by.
I have news! he struck again, this time with more nerve!!!
i finish my workout and i go to the locker room, where he pops up after 3-4 minutes.
i go to the same stall cause the otehr ones stink since they are connected to the toilet drain, and i start showering..
and he pops again.. saying with a very gay voice...
"i see you got my stall again"
- yeah man, well the other 3 are empty (and turn my back)
i continue washing, and after 1 minute he comes out of his stall all soapy and stares at me saying
-well... you dont have any humor dont you? still sitting stark naked and soapy while im trying to shower
- are you gonna stand there for???
- yeap.. i like to see you
- please do me a favour and get inside your stall (in very serious tone)
i finished my shower after that. and i didnt see him..
getting a gym at my house or taking a shower at my house are not options. I WILL NOT be driven away from my gym cause of the old fart!
im a very polite person, and i really dont like to be confrontational with people, especially since im gay myself, but greece is not as liberal as other countries in the issue of nudity so his behaviour was utterly out of bounds!
we have several younger guys at the gym now who have taken to drying off IN the shower (I can't stand that- too hard to stretch your arms out) and then taking their shorts (in some cases pants) in with them and changing IN the (dry) shower...
Hope he behaves better. You certainly shouldn't let anyone drive you away.
I forgot my age is not showing here, I am speaking from the perspective of 51, so I am an old queen as well.
Not the case here, but there were 2 fairly recent threads with very elaborate stories by supposed young straight guys who said they suffered much worse 'advances' by gay guys, one in a shower and the other in a bathroom, I believed them at first, but have since come to suspect they were made up. (and I def am NOT inferring I doubt you, I do not)
I finally told him, "If I see anything sticking out, I am going to yell snake and kill it." I had to repeat it to him once. He got the message and quit. If he comes at you trying to poke you, grab it and give it a hard snap. It will never work again.
He may simply be a creature of habit who uses that stall all the time, an inconsiderate old fart whose only thought was for you to hurry the hell up and move on. Some people think only of their own needs.
I'd say, I have a gun in my car, you bother me anymore, and with one shot I'll change you from a rooster to a hen. Gotta love that line of dolly p's.
reporting him, or threaten him that i will report him is too direct and hostile