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So I've bulled for a long time and have found myself in an interesting situation. I've met a couple I really want to join on SLS and they seem excited about me, but they are looking for a bi guy. I've sort of explained myself, and we've basically negotiated to this: He can go down on me, and I'll go down on him, but I won't be in a submissive posture (on my knees) and he won't finish in my mouth or on me, and I get to go to town on the wife. I've mentioned on this site before that being here has made me interested in maybe sucking a dick someday, so this isn't entirely out of the blue.

I'd like to at least do a competent job on him, so, um, any advice? He seems small, which means he's probably about average size outside of my porn/lpsg warped world. Also, in case he breaks the deal or I do such an awesome job that he loses control (haha), will it be obvious that he's cumming before I get a wad of cum in my mouth? Can you feel the twitch/pump beforehand?

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Try to give what you enjoy? Tongue helps! Normally, but not always before orgasm the balls will pull tighter and he will get harder. But not always!

"Try to give what you enjoy?" I've sort of thought about that, but then realized I've never really given much thought to the mechanics of what I enjoy. I feel like it's like telling someone who wants to paint "paint what you like." I mean yeah but there are certain techniques involved in making that happen!
 

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I don’t think you should worry about positions or submission or anything other than enjoying the moment. I’d think about sucking his cock so good he’s never had better. Make them both feel sexy and desired. You might find you enjoy his cock very much in the moment.
 
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Also, anything to be prepared for that you don't necessarily think about when you go down? I imagine a cock feels/tastes/smells different than you'd expect. I'm probably overintellectualizing this, but that's what I do in life!
 
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I don’t think you should worry about positions or submission or anything other than enjoying the moment. I’d think about sucking his cock so good he’s never had better. Make them both feel sexy and desired. You might find you enjoy his cock very much in the moment.

"Make them both feel sexy and desired."

Good thoughts -- I should probably compliment his cock extensively and tell him how excited I am to be sucking it. Something I hadn't really thought of.

The lack of submission/positions is mostly because of the type of bull I like/they want me to play with the wife, and I sort of feel like submitting detracts from that. But again, I'm probably overthinking.
 

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"Make them both feel sexy and desired."

Good thoughts -- I should probably compliment his cock extensively and tell him how excited I am to be sucking it. Something I hadn't really thought of.

The lack of submission/positions is mostly because of the type of bull I like/they want me to play with the wife, and I sort of feel like submitting detracts from that. But again, I'm probably overthinking.

Well it went down last night (so to speak) and it was . . . fine? I don't think it would be anything I would ever seek out.

I guess I was most surprised by how hot it was -- not like sexy, but warm. Also how squishy the head felt. I guess I know that from my own dick but when I feel it with my hand it's usually maximual pleasure so I don't really concentrate on it.

He was mostly soft when we started off, and feeling him get hard in my mouth was pretty rewarding. I guess I did a good job.

His wife was sucking me while I sucked him, so that definitely made the whole experience more enjoyable, then he moved down to help her. After we were done we compared; I was like 2-3" longer and thicker, and it have to say it pretty pleasurable rubbing our dicks together. That I would do again.

Anyway, then I went to town on his wife. A good time was had by all.
 

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Good times. Bi MMF is my fave

First dick I sucked was massive lol. Was very hot but challenging. So its prolly good that u started out with a smaller one

I definitely find bigger ones more attractive, at least on this site and in porn, so I might enjoy it more. He also didn't shave or trim at all so his head was barely sticking past his pubes; I might be able to do more with a shaved/trimmed one.
 

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I definitely find bigger ones more attractive, at least on this site and in porn, so I might enjoy it more. He also didn't shave or trim at all so his head was barely sticking past his pubes; I might be able to do more with a shaved/trimmed one.

yeah once u start sucking bigger ones and get more experience u wont wanna go back to small/avg
 
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yeah once u start sucking bigger ones and get more experience u wont wanna go back to small/avg

I think having a grower swell up in my mouth would actually turn me on. Like I said, this was fine, but didn't do much for me beyond "huh so that's what it's like." But that would get me hard.
 

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So if I were to want to take this further, what is a good source? I actually met a few j/o buds (and couples) off of craigslist back in the day, but unfortunately that is gone. Grindr? Can you say "hey I'm interesting in trying sucking, but only if you're big and also I'm not gonna swallow?"
 

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So if I were to want to take this further, what is a good source? I actually met a few j/o buds (and couples) off of craigslist back in the day, but unfortunately that is gone. Grindr? Can you say "hey I'm interesting in trying sucking, but only if you're big and also I'm not gonna swallow?"
Grindr can be great for hookups, yeah. And you can absolutely say all of that in your profile. I even put up my personal size requirements on mine and I've never had any problems.
 
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Grindr can be great for hookups, yeah. And you can absolutely say all of that in your profile. I even put up my personal size requirements on mine and I've never had any problems.
Cool. Every site/forum has its own culture, and it can take a really long time to learn it.