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As a once young passive twink who has turned into an older power bottom... most porn always features the stereotypes of Daddies and older men in the top roles, and the younger guys in the submissive and bottom roles.

How true is this stereotype for you younger guys? Are there any younger guys who love older guys who bottom? And what about older bottoms, how much action do you get from younger guys?

Love to know your thoughts!
 

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As a once young passive twink who has turned into an older power bottom... most porn always features the stereotypes of Daddies and older men in the top roles, and the younger guys in the submissive and bottom roles.

How true is this stereotype for you younger guys? Are there any younger guys who love older guys who bottom? And what about older bottoms, how much action do you get from younger guys?

Love to know your thoughts!
Both are true! I am in my 40’s and all of my partners are in their 20’s. Half the time I’m the top, half the time I’m the bottom. I love both roles with twinks!
 

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It’s not true.. for me.. people get in their minds that the older guy should dominate the younger one..

I beg to differ .. I want that younger guy push his hands in my back and pound that young hard cock until he cums..
It's really strange, when I was younger I went for older guys, big hairy bears and didn't care for guys my own age. Now I'm older I've suddenly unexpectedly developed a strong interest in younger twinks with big thick smooth cocks. It's strange how attraction to types waxes and wanes
 

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I agree that there's a definite stereotype associated with older dudes: somehow, ALL THOSE DEDICATED BOTTOM TWINKS, when they hit some magical age, become dominant tops.

Where the fuck do total bottom twinks go in that fantasy world? Banished when they hit 30?

It's annoying how obviously we older bottoms are "vanished" in gay porn. We barely exist! And when we do show up, it's in videos themed with VERY young-looking* boys with older bottom daddies...it's a bit too on the edge of inappropriate.

Fortunately for me, my younger partner is a top and likes older men (fortunately, that happens to be ME!) so I can keep being an enthusiastic bottom who happens to be older.

* I know the issue well, I was one of those, carded at the bars when I was 23 but barely looked 18 or 19.
 

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I don't know how the stereotype affects me. I tend to top older guys, but part of that is because they rarely want to be top. Plus, when they're topping it's almost boring or too monotonous or too fast.
For me its the other way around. I.ve only had sex with older men and they find it weird to be topped by a younger guy, so I am usually the bottom.
 
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As a once young passive twink who has turned into an older power bottom... most porn always features the stereotypes of Daddies and older men in the top roles, and the younger guys in the submissive and bottom roles.

How true is this stereotype for you younger guys? Are there any younger guys who love older guys who bottom? And what about older bottoms, how much action do you get from younger guys?

Love to know your thoughts!
Since I started my sexual life, all my sexual partners have been older guys. I am vers and I have ocationally topped, but I have mostly been the bottom, so i´d say the stereotype has been mostly true for me. In part, it has been because the men say its weird for them to have such a yong guy top them (not only I am younger, but I am also a babyfaced twink... so i can´t say i don´t understand their feeling). On the other hand, while I do enjoy the feeling of topping, I am not very good at it, so when I top I feel a bit insecure and shy, so I am okay-er with being the bottom
 
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As an older bottom, I don't hook up with younger guys all that often, but it does happen from time to time. The last time was with a younger top (22 yo college student) I met on Sniffies (I'm 41). My age didn't bother him and he was into me so we hooked up and he plowed my big ass. His high energy was definitely a reminder of the nearly 20 years I've got on him though lol.
 

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As an older bottom, I don't hook up with younger guys all that often, but it does happen from time to time. The last time was with a younger top (22 yo college student) I met on Sniffies (I'm 41). My age didn't bother him and he was into me so we hooked up and he plowed my big ass. His high energy was definitely a reminder of the nearly 20 years I've got on him though lol.
I find topping older guys (specially 40 and up) so hot, but as i said upper on the thread, the older guys i´ve been with mostly find being topped by a younger guy weird, so I´ve rarely had the honors, but you seem just like the kind of older guy i´d love to top