Older Guys: Have Your Orgasms Changed With Age?

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Have your orgasms changed as you’ve gotten older? If so, how?

For example:
Has the intensity of the gratification you receive from getting off changed?
Do you shoot more or less cum? Do you shoot as far?
Does ED impact the quality of the orgasm? If so, how?
Have you experienced a measured difference in heart rate?

Feel free to share other things you’ve observed. Please include your age in your reply.
 
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I am 56 and can easily say my orgasms are getting stronger and more frequent. I often hit double digits daily which is getting ridiculous. Need multiple girls to handle my drive now.

In my early twenties i was fucking 5 or 6 times a day which i thought was crazy..
 

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Age 42 here. I don't think anything's really changed since I was younger. Sometimes I can shoot a little ways, mostly I dribble. Volume is about the same, although there are times when it feels like a lot comes out, but I didn't.

I will say that the enjoyment of my orgasms has gotten stronger. Maybe as you get older you appreciate them more!
 

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63 here orgasm is a problem as are erections
If stroking along I can get hard for a short time but then go soft and end up stopping. If I introduce porn I do better in keeping the erection and will either shoot or dribble out a load
Use Cialis for sex with the wife which works great but usually came cum. Once she has had enough I have to pull out and forcefully stroke out a small load. Never that satisfied. If I manage to cum inside sometimes I dribble and others shoot.
Interesting thing is if I shoot a second load later in the day it is usually massive. Frustrating to say the least.
Right now due to a house full of kids and then the flu I haven’t cum in 9 days.
 
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45 and no problems getting it up and keeping it up.

My orgasms feel more intense, but where i use to shoot to her shoulders i now have a short spurt followed by a little bit of dribbling. Volume is way down mostly. If i have an orgasm again that day, or in the following day it seems to shoot further and like littleguy2 said the volume is way up.
 

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I’m 62, and like several of us, I’ve turned from a hit-the-bedhead shooter into more of a dribbler. Sometimes, I can go for days at a time without the urge, while at other times I cum multiple times a day. Though I take a small dose of blood pressure meds, it doesn’t seem to have affected the strength or regularity of erections.

Both my husband and I place more modest demands on the sexual component of our relationship, but we’ll get stuck into it awesomely when the mood strikes us. We’ve had a lifetime of sex; some of it good, some less so, some borne of passion so strong it would make you sick to ignore, some neurotic and compulsive, some unwise, most of it fulfilling. The big difference is not so much physical,but rather that we’re far more relaxed about it. We have pretty much nothing left to prove to ourselves, sexually.
 

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Older man here. Probably oldest on LPSG.

Twenty plus years ago I had ED problems. My urologist prescribed viagra the day it was released. About 10 years ago I learned about Kegels. When I first started doing them I could only do 5-10. Now I am capable of doing many more than that a couple of times a day a times. I do not do them every day. This has greatly improved the ED condition. My erections get hard enough for penetration and increase after penetration and with stroking. I am now able to get quite hard, but not as hard as in my earlier years. Then my erections got so hard they were on the edge of being painful. This was not a negative occurrence. Even now the harder my erection gets, the harder it gets. I am able to edge sometimes only for 10-15 minutes, and other times for half an hour to an hour. I have done this sometimes 2 to 5 times a day without climaxing. When I do decide to cum it is very intense at times. So much so that my body trembles all over.

This past summer a T level check was made. I was surprised when it was reported at 620. The range on that scale is from 250 to 1100.

In 2003 and again in 2015 I had TURP procedures because of enlarged prostate, no cancer. When ejeculating very small amounts of semen ooz out. I think that the TURPs have seriously affected this.
Prior to the first TURP my PSA was 14.4, after and since in has hovered around 2.5.

In the mornings I have morning erections of about 75% erection.

My libido has always been very high. Even in my late 50s I would have sex 4-5 times a day. It still remains very high.

After the first TURP my urologist informed me that my prostate was the largest he had seen to that point in his practice. This affected my life in a very negative way. I had to avoid about every 12-20 minutes. This made travel extremely difficult, and affected sleep. Nights were very long.

As with other posts I have made comments and questions are welcome. Thanks
 

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I'm 70 and my dick grew 1/4 inch in length and girth last year. No problem getting and staying hard but cumming seems to follow pissing with regard to intensity. Neither can cross a room anymore but I still love it.

Behold your future?
 
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I have noticed intensity of my orgasam has changed. It’s still intense but the feeling is different lately. Now I’m not sure how much stomach issues have to do with your penis.
 

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Mine no longer hit the ceiling either. I miss those days. I do leak a lot though.
I have read many of your post and I always find a great deal of knowledge, and wise comments from you. So you have me very intrigued as to what you and your cock look like.
 
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I am 43 and my libido is not what it used to be. I used to shoot cumshots over 4/5 feet out when I was in my teens into my late 20s. Now I can still shoot but max out around maybe 3 ft max. I have to work harder to get my shooting orgasms (edging) but I LOVE EDGING. I dan go hours if time allows. I used to be able to hang towels from how hard I was now not so much as my cock has loss a bit of length but has gained mass/girth. I can still get stone hard when i edge but "a stiff breeze" does not get me off now. All to be expected I guess.

I have master some new drawn out cumshots that last over 6/8 min long b4 I actually orgasm, I call it a forced slow dribble. I have tons of vids in my profile of all my shots if anyone wants to do "research;) " .
 
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I'm 43, I haven't really noticed any extreme changes, my orgasms still feel the same, I haven't had any ED issues yet. Biggest difference is probably cum volume, I'd say I probably shoot on average about 2/3 of what I did 20 years ago. However, I can still shoot multiple rounds like always, even if it's basically blanks by the third ejaculation. I haven't measured my cumshot distance in a while, I could still hit five feet standing up when I was 40.
 
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Almost 65... in a month from now.... orgasms are still very intense. I usually have quite a bit of pre-cum and haven't noticed any difference in the amount of cum when I do shoot.... in fact when I have massage if HE is at the end most comment about the amount of cum. :)
 
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I'm wondering if any of you guys are taking care of your prostate? By that I mean are any of you men actively keeping your prostate in good health by prostate massage?

There are many benefits of prostate massage. Careful though, don't be rough with it. It should be painless but highly enjoyable. It helps keep everything cleared out and in working order.
 

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I'm wondering if any of you guys are taking care of your prostate? By that I mean are any of you men actively keeping your prostate in good health by prostate massage?

There are many benefits of prostate massage. Careful though, don't be rough with it. It should be painless but highly enjoyable. It helps keep everything cleared out and in working order.
Probably something that could help me achieve better orgasms but don’t currently do any
 
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Probably something that could help me achieve better orgasms but don’t currently do any

You should seriously consider it. It's mind blowing and good for the prostate as well.
 
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