Older Guys: Have Your Orgasms Changed With Age?

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Had an orgasm after two weeks of abstinence and hardly felt it shoot

Definitely think you'd enjoy prostate stimulation. Investing in a good prostate massager would probably change how you feel about the intensity of your orgasm.
 

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I'm 56 and have had bouts with ED over the past 10 years. Seems to have resolved itself, and the doctor is puzzled. Nothing has changed in my activity or health, so not sure what happened. It's just I now have morning wood more often than not. Ejaculations have always been forceful. I have had to warn partners, actually.

I also have a lot of precum. If I become stimulated, like browsing this site, and go the bathroom lately I'll be so slick that I have problems getting a grip on things.
 

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Still have intense orgasms, when I caan each one. It's just hard for me to cum. Wife likes it up to a point but it's not so good for me. She gets tired while trying to get me off sometimes
Same here Mason. Last time we had sex it was great. Cialis kept my dick rock hard, stayed inside a long time and even got her off. I could not cum. Pulled out and stroked but couldn’t cum. Not sure if good or bad but erection subsided and I didn’t feel like I needed to cum at all. In fact I didn’t cum until two days later and then it just dribbled out
 
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I still have strong erections and have always been able to last a reasonable length of time. What has changed is the amount of cum I produce.
 
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Orgasms didn't Change much. But I don't shoot as far as did as a Boy and Young man.
But my erections changed a lot.
In this Album you can find out the changes in the last 12 years.
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Funny thing is o can still shoot a good distance but they feeling is different
 
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at 67, mine aren't always as intense. they are also shorter. I still shoot a big first load about a foot sometimes. several spurts. after that, I spurt 3-4 inches. a far cry from when I was young and shot "ropes" 6-7 feet.
one thing with having a big cock when you're older, it takes awhile to "fill'er up", but my wife shows proper attention to her work as my stiff dick will testify.
 
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at 67, mine aren't always as intense. they are also shorter. I still shoot a big first load about a foot sometimes. several spurts. after that, I spurt 3-4 inches. a far cry from when I was young and shot "ropes" 6-7 feet.
one thing with having a big cock when you're older, it takes awhile to "fill'er up", but my wife shows proper attention to her work as my stiff dick will testify.
I always read that my average size would do better as I got older but found out that’s not true even in my 50’s. Now at 63 it Takes a lot to make my 5 incher hard and even harder to orgasm.
 
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I'm 56 and have had bouts with ED over the past 10 years. Seems to have resolved itself, and the doctor is puzzled. Nothing has changed in my activity or health, so not sure what happened. It's just I now have morning wood more often than not. Ejaculations have always been forceful. I have had to warn partners, actually.

I also have a lot of precum. If I become stimulated, like browsing this site, and go the bathroom lately I'll be so slick that I have problems getting a grip on things.



According to Webmd it is important to keep getting regular erections. Your post indicates that you have been doing that so perhaps the muscles are rejuvenating. This also helps explain morning wood/
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8, things to know about your penis.
https://www.webmd.com/men/guide/8-things-you-did-not-know-about-your-penis#1


1. Use It or Lose It
You need to have erections regularly to keep your penis in shape. "It has to be essentially exercised," says Tobias Kohler, MD, assistant professor of urology at Southern Illinois University School of Medicine.

To maintain a healthy tone, the smooth muscle of the penis must be periodically enriched with oxygen by the rush of blood that engorges the penis and makes it erect, Kohler says.

If a guy is physically able to get erect, but never has erections during the day -- maybe he finds himself in very un-erotic circumstances for a long time -- he needn't worry. The brain has an automatic penis maintenance function built in.

Impulses from the brain cause erections during the dreaming phase of sleep, called the REM phase. It doesn't matter if you're having a hot sex dream or a zombie apocalypse nightmare -- your penis gets hard during that period of the sleep cycle.

But some men are physically unable to get erections, such as those who've suffered trauma to the nerves involved or who have nerve or blood vessel damage caused by diabetes.

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"If they don't do anything to maintain normal erections, they will get shortening of the penis," Kohler says. Without regular erections, penile tissue can become less elastic and shrink, making the penis 1-2 centimeters shorter.

A device like a vacuum pump, which forces the penis to swell with blood, can help men with physical erection problems maintain a healthy penis,
 

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Answers to the questions by the OP below:

Has the intensity of the gratification you receive from getting off changed?

I guess by 'gratification' you mean pleasure? Like, do I cum harder now I'm older or less hard? If that's the question then yes, absolutely I cum so incredibly hard now I really don't know or understand how my body can have orgasms that are so strong. It is completely insane the last year or so. I turn 44 this year.

Do you shoot more or less cum? Do you shoot as far?

I shoot cum harder and it flies further now than ever before in my life. I also make more semen now than ever before too. I don't know how or why, maybe because I'm cumming so incredibly hard. Even if my volume is at like 25% of my max, the first shot goes usually 4' feet out even if it's just a little blob of jizz. Big long ropes shoot out like that too though! I shot 6' feet last week, second rope went between 4-5' feet. When I was a teen it just sort of fell out, or I'd shoot a few inches or so in my 20s. Every now and then I'd have big long ropes that could expand over 3' feet, but it was a few times a year and with my wife in extremely erotic situations after long breaks of no cumming. In my 30s firing off ropes become more regular, but not like now. Now I can shoot 4' feet more than once a day, a few days in a row?! Aging is kind of cool in some regards ;)

Does ED impact the quality of the orgasm? If so, how?
I don't have ED at all. However, I was experimenting with heavy Ayruvedic supplements for a few months and I'd need to cum so damn bad I couldn't get hard. The second I did get hard I'd start cumming and it was loads of cum and the inability to get hard made the orgasm insanely intense, so strong I didn't want to cum anymore. If I need to cum super bad and it's been days of waiting I'll be too excited and can't get hard, its happened all my life. But because I had this happening suddenly after 40 I got worried. I cut out the supplements and was popping boners left and right no problem. I guess anything after 40 that's a change with genitals can cause alarm and worry.

Have you experienced a measured difference in heart rate?
After massive Os my heart will beat quite damn hard and I have to sit down for a minute, but it's not any different now than 10 years ago.
 
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Guys 40+ —

Have your orgasms changed as you’ve gotten older? If so, how?

For example:
Has the intensity of the gratification you receive from getting off changed?
Do you shoot more or less cum? Do you shoot as far?
Does ED impact the quality of the orgasm? If so, how?
Have you experienced a measured difference in heart rate?

Feel free to share other things you’ve observed. Please include your age in your reply.
Age: 54
Orgasm has not changed. Still the same. Only less cum volume.
Not being able to shoot further when checking it via masturbation. Heart rate has not changed. Still below 70 pulse per minute. Last checked at a health clinic was 62 beats per minute. 22 Jan. 2020.

Nevertheless, did apply oil externally to my dick as supplement. Minyak lintah. Not viagra equivalent because it is for exterior use onl.
Jan. 31, 2020
 
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I am 55 and I masturbate to an orgasm at least once daily, thanks mostly to porn. While I mostly jerk off to my extensive (and old) porn dvd collection, if I run into my straight Egyptian/Ecuadorian neighbor, or my stocky, straight African-American UPS guy, that works as well. I never thought my libido would be so active at this age. I drink lots of water each day to keep the, uh, fluids flowing when I ejaculate
 
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