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Wasn't sure where to post this thread. Guess this is as good a place as any.
This is my question to the guys here.
How many men here are 65 and above? I can't tell by looking at just the cock pictures.
I find older guys, who are still sexually involved to be hot and encouraging.
I'm 70 myself and still enjoy sex very much. Not what I once was, by any means, but still active.
If you're a proud older man and not ashamed of achieving an older status please share your story.
The youngest among us will be old men one day and I thank God that I have been allowed to reach this age and still be a man interested in sexual things. Some of my friends are not and have given up. Hope I never give up on such and enjoyable part of my life.
 

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Great idea for a thread!
I'm 68 now and really grateful that I still have a sex drive (and a big enough cock to get attention and give pleasure!).

Because of my fundamentalist upbringing, I didn't begin to get comfortable with my sexuality until my mid-30s so I was cheated out of years of fun. I was also quite an alcoholic in my 20s and early 30s, but I'm now convinced that without the guilt/shame and alcohol abuse, I might have moved to a big city and died from AIDS like so many of my contemporaries.

Instead, I got sober at 32 and met my husband when I was 36. Because we met during the worst of the AIDS epidemic, and because he lost hundreds of friends, we were basically afraid of sex for years. But truthfully, we are both tops and we're never quite compatible sexually, but were very much spiritually compatible. We were refuges for each other.

Then beginning 10 years into our relationship, hubby had failed knee operations and many serious, life-threatening infections. We were soon in a situation where sexual intimacy was not possible and, without his knowledge, I began to play a bit in steam rooms and bath houses. Later his formidable and necessary pain meds made even hugs and emotional intimacy difficult. It was at that point, just after I turned 61, that my husband gave me permission to play around. I am still with him and will stay with him, but my primary role is care-giver.

Since then I have had a good bit of fun with many different guys, most of them for several times and 3 of them for periods of months or more. I have had far more sex AND far better sex in my 60s than in my 20s, 30s, 40s or 50s! Even though I have doubted why a 30 year old or even a 40 year old would be interested in an older guy like me, I have been told again and again that I'm a great lover. Perhaps it's because I'm generous in bed and not just there for the quick shot and I want to be sure my lover is enjoying himself too.

Also, I think sober sex is just awesome. Instead of needing to be anesthetized to my feelings, I am fully in touch with my emotions and thoughts. I'm also grateful to have found lovers who can be all there. We connect with more than just poles and holes. Eyes, smiles, intimate (and dirty!) talk, and cuddles are all so meaningful at this stage of my life.
 

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Great idea for a thread!
I'm 68 now and really grateful that I still have a sex drive (and a big enough cock to get attention and give pleasure!).

Because of my fundamentalist upbringing, I didn't begin to get comfortable with my sexuality until my mid-30s so I was cheated out of years of fun. I was also quite an alcoholic in my 20s and early 30s, but I'm now convinced that without the guilt/shame and alcohol abuse, I might have moved to a big city and died from AIDS like so many of my contemporaries.

Instead, I got sober at 32 and met my husband when I was 36. Because we met during the worst of the AIDS epidemic, and because he lost hundreds of friends, we were basically afraid of sex for years. But truthfully, we are both tops and we're never quite compatible sexually, but were very much spiritually compatible. We were refuges for each other.

Then beginning 10 years into our relationship, hubby had failed knee operations and many serious, life-threatening infections. We were soon in a situation where sexual intimacy was not possible and, without his knowledge, I began to play a bit in steam rooms and bath houses. Later his formidable and necessary pain meds made even hugs and emotional intimacy difficult. It was at that point, just after I turned 61, that my husband gave me permission to play around. I am still with him and will stay with him, but my primary role is care-giver.

Since then I have had a good bit of fun with many different guys, most of them for several times and 3 of them for periods of months or more. I have had far more sex AND far better sex in my 60s than in my 20s, 30s, 40s or 50s! Even though I have doubted why a 30 year old or even a 40 year old would be interested in an older guy like me, I have been told again and again that I'm a great lover. Perhaps it's because I'm generous in bed and not just there for the quick shot and I want to be sure my lover is enjoying himself too.

Also, I think sober sex is just awesome. Instead of needing to be anesthetized to my feelings, I am fully in touch with my emotions and thoughts. I'm also grateful to have found lovers who can be all there. We connect with more than just poles and holes. Eyes, smiles, intimate (and dirty!) talk, and cuddles are all so meaningful at this stage of my life.

Congratulations on cleaning up the alcohol from your life that is an accomplishment. I admire anyone who can do that. My wife was an alcoholic in her early years of our marriage and cleaned her act up and to support her I stopped drinking and smoking marijuana, neither has had a drink in almost 35 years. One of the best thing either of us have done in our lives.
 

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Great idea for a thread!
I'm 68 now and really grateful that I still have a sex drive (and a big enough cock to get attention and give pleasure!).

Because of my fundamentalist upbringing, I didn't begin to get comfortable with my sexuality until my mid-30s so I was cheated out of years of fun. I was also quite an alcoholic in my 20s and early 30s, but I'm now convinced that without the guilt/shame and alcohol abuse, I might have moved to a big city and died from AIDS like so many of my contemporaries.

Instead, I got sober at 32 and met my husband when I was 36. Because we met during the worst of the AIDS epidemic, and because he lost hundreds of friends, we were basically afraid of sex for years. But truthfully, we are both tops and we're never quite compatible sexually, but were very much spiritually compatible. We were refuges for each other.

Then beginning 10 years into our relationship, hubby had failed knee operations and many serious, life-threatening infections. We were soon in a situation where sexual intimacy was not possible and, without his knowledge, I began to play a bit in steam rooms and bath houses. Later his formidable and necessary pain meds made even hugs and emotional intimacy difficult. It was at that point, just after I turned 61, that my husband gave me permission to play around. I am still with him and will stay with him, but my primary role is care-giver.

Since then I have had a good bit of fun with many different guys, most of them for several times and 3 of them for periods of months or more. I have had far more sex AND far better sex in my 60s than in my 20s, 30s, 40s or 50s! Even though I have doubted why a 30 year old or even a 40 year old would be interested in an older guy like me, I have been told again and again that I'm a great lover. Perhaps it's because I'm generous in bed and not just there for the quick shot and I want to be sure my lover is enjoying himself too.

Also, I think sober sex is just awesome. Instead of needing to be anesthetized to my feelings, I am fully in touch with my emotions and thoughts. I'm also grateful to have found lovers who can be all there. We connect with more than just poles and holes. Eyes, smiles, intimate (and dirty!) talk, and cuddles are all so meaningful at this stage of my life.

Kudos to you on several levels:
1.) For having the courage to move beyond your upbringing to able to live authentically;
2.) For having the courage to continue to be a sexual being, when conventional intimacy was no longer possible for you;
3.) For having the strength of character to be a caregiver.
 

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Mid seventies, and have no sex with the wife these days. But, I have a strong sex drive for self satisfaction and indulge myself a couple of times a week. Sometimes more, depending on what I've found on the 'net. Would like to expand my activity some, but not sure how.
 

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Great idea for a thread!
I'm 68 now and really grateful that I still have a sex drive (and a big enough cock to get attention and give pleasure!).

Because of my fundamentalist upbringing, I didn't begin to get comfortable with my sexuality until my mid-30s so I was cheated out of years of fun. I was also quite an alcoholic in my 20s and early 30s, but I'm now convinced that without the guilt/shame and alcohol abuse, I might have moved to a big city and died from AIDS like so many of my contemporaries.

Instead, I got sober at 32 and met my husband when I was 36. Because we met during the worst of the AIDS epidemic, and because he lost hundreds of friends, we were basically afraid of sex for years. But truthfully, we are both tops and we're never quite compatible sexually, but were very much spiritually compatible. We were refuges for each other.

Then beginning 10 years into our relationship, hubby had failed knee operations and many serious, life-threatening infections. We were soon in a situation where sexual intimacy was not possible and, without his knowledge, I began to play a bit in steam rooms and bath houses. Later his formidable and necessary pain meds made even hugs and emotional intimacy difficult. It was at that point, just after I turned 61, that my husband gave me permission to play around. I am still with him and will stay with him, but my primary role is care-giver.

Since then I have had a good bit of fun with many different guys, most of them for several times and 3 of them for periods of months or more. I have had far more sex AND far better sex in my 60s than in my 20s, 30s, 40s or 50s! Even though I have doubted why a 30 year old or even a 40 year old would be interested in an older guy like me, I have been told again and again that I'm a great lover. Perhaps it's because I'm generous in bed and not just there for the quick shot and I want to be sure my lover is enjoying himself too.

Also, I think sober sex is just awesome. Instead of needing to be anesthetized to my feelings, I am fully in touch with my emotions and thoughts. I'm also grateful to have found lovers who can be all there. We connect with more than just poles and holes. Eyes, smiles, intimate (and dirty!) talk, and cuddles are all so meaningful at this stage of my life.

Thanks for that reply. Glad you are finally happy
 
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Mid seventies, and have no sex with the wife these days. But, I have a strong sex drive for self satisfaction and indulge myself a couple of times a week. Sometimes more, depending on what I've found on the 'net. Would like to expand my activity some, but not sure how.

I find that so many older women impose celibacy on their husbands. Not fair or right. Thanks goodness for older women who still enjoy sex. Of course older men are guilty of the same thing and force their women to do without.
 

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I am 69 and will be 70 in 3 weeks and and I love sucking or getting sucked by older men
and I love sucking uncut older men
Mason James I love your profile pics ...a beautiful thick cock not to long and not too short