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I have to say when I was 18 I met and fell in love with a 30yo married man with 2 kids that lasted 5 years
I am now going on 44 in pretty good shape and i really do like guys from 18 to 80 my lover now is 77 and we get along great we live and sleep together at first he was not sure but now he is i know he loves me and I love him to.
at first he thought we were too far apart in age for it to work but we have been together for over a year now and going strong
yes he is more stable than i am but I have a small but steady income
so things are great
 
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It's the financial thing here in Central Europe. Most younger guys are not financially secure - not as well as an American or other westerner here. So you REALLY have to be cautious when being ''pursued'' by a young guy. My ''lovers'' got accommodation, holidays, nice gifts, etc and I got nothing really except to find out they were cheating on me whenever I left on a business trip. I think in the US I'd have much better luck meeting someone.

Anyone in the Miami area? :tongue: That's where I'm thinking of moving.

I am not much interested in hunks or big cocks or anything else about guys. Sometimes a scent from a guy going by makes me feel sick, whatever his look is. Nevertheless, to my surprise, I wonder what it is like to have sex with a guy all the time. If I get a chance to do it, I'd like to have a man over forty and gray-haired. They look cool. Never mind. I'm not looking for a sugar-daddy. and I hope my curiosity would not kill my cat.
 

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It always surprises me how many young (18-30yr) guys are interested in me. I'm in average shape but there are plenty of younger guys out there that like older men. LUCKY US!!!!!!!!
 

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I definitely qualify as "older" and have had many sexual encounters with younger guys, and gals for that matter. Though I have no particular age preference I'd have to agree with Nailbender, LUCKY US, simply because it just increases the opportunities that are out there.
 

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The funny thing is that young dudes didn't seem to be interested in me until I started gettign a little gray in my hair.

I'm about the same age and I've noticed the same thing. What is it about grey hair that is so appealing? :smile:

But of course old guys like younger guys (and sometime vice versa). I do, for one. But anyone really really younger is, maybe, good for sex, but frankly the interests seem to diverge too much for anything beyond that. The younger generation these days.... :wink:
 
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50, and for two years now, VERY happily married to a guy of 23. I always used to like younger guys, but always thought they were interested just for what they could gain from the relationship, and it never lasted long. Therefore, when my hubby first approached me, and relentlessly persued me, I was sceptical. Turns out you really get young guys interested in older guys.

It's the financial thing here in Central Europe. Most younger guys are not financially secure - not as well as an American or other westerner here. So you REALLY have to be cautious when being ''pursued'' by a young guy.

I think as guys grow older, they tend to get more skeptical. I know I do, and I hate it. If I ever grow up to be a jaded old queen, someone please slap me out of it. One thing I really admire about younger guys are their energy/enthusiasm, their "can-do" attitude, and their trust...often things that older guys might not have as much as they once did.

But of course old guys like younger guys (and sometime vice versa). I do, for one. But anyone really really younger is, maybe, good for sex, but frankly the interests seem to diverge too much for anything beyond that.

I can understand your observation about diverging interests...but sometimes I think an imbalance in a relationship can lead to balance. Maybe a younger guy is too wild and reckless and an older guy can teach him to focus and calm down. Or maybe an older guy becomes too set in his ways with routine, and a younger guy can pull him out of the house and have some fun.

Of course, the characteristics of focus, calm, routine, wildness and fun are not age specific...there are reckless 70 year olds...but generally speaking there are life patterns, and maybe in some way relationships that stretch across generational lines work to give some people balance.
 

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I am 46 and my partner is 51 and we received many proposition from 18 years old guys all the time. The last one was last week. This cute 18 years is practically begging to come over and play with us. And there is no "money" exchange.
 

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When I was in grad school (age 24-25) I had a "friend" in his mid-60s who was very generou$ to this $tarving $tudent. He was one of the best lovers I ever had - intelligent, witty, handsome, hung, hard, and oh yes, financially comfortable.
 

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Adore older hung fellas, anyone 45+ but a hung silverdad is very hot indeed. Shame I can't secure one but would love to show them a good time! Very hot to see them in action ... :eek:)
 

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I am 27 now but a few years ago, I had a bf that was in his late 50's and was a super guy in all ways. We were together for 5 years until, unfortunately, he had a heart attack and is no longer here. I miss him alot but will always remember him forever. My current bf is in his late 30's and we have been living together for six months now after dating for about a year. I guess I like them all, regardless of age. Attitude means everything.
 

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I have a friend who in a relationship with a 23 year old. He 52. My buds got a great body but he got a lot of shit from all of us when he first started to date the young pup. I for one sent him a coupon for pampers......coming from me he knew I was kidding!

Mm...so you young guys really do like older men?
 

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