Sorry about the intimidating Title. Means both older gals and guys. Hopefully - we will all retain the ability to "embrace/tackle" these issues someday. Yes, those probably aren't the proper verbs to use. As we get older we start noticing that we aren't what we used to be. I'm speaking of the physical WE. Stuff starts stretching towards the ground, skin becomes thinner, we don't have the energy we used to have... there's a bunch of these. I've noticed - and you probably have too; that both genders assume a reversal of the "Me-Me-ME !" attitude. Our chosen partner's overall healthy condition becomes more important that it used to be when we had multiple partners. And our OWN health becomes a concern. One thing which Struck Ma Honey and I is the condition of our skin: It's become very thin. We have taken opposite positions with respect to the "severity" of this change. She is amazed - actually even more "fascinated" - by all the veins and blood vessels which appeared - and at the mass still there - especially when hard. I'm worried about how thin her skin is around her breasts. They appear very delicate. Anyone else share this concern ? Yes, her nipples still engorge when aroused, but her breasts are a lot "flatter" and tend to hug her body. Her clitoris goes through what I consider unusual changes in smoothness and sensitivity, somewhat related to her fluidity - probably a lunar relationship; but with higher Ups and Downs than before. Overall - I believe it's in the best shape ever, with proper attention. Practice does continue to make more perfect, since we have been together for a while and have no problem expressing "does" and "don'ts". I hope changes which inhibit the "fun" for all of us can be overcome in one way or another. Be nice to have a WEB site oriented towards this Topic.