Older Top 30 / Younger Top 24

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by hotofficeguy, Apr 10, 2008.

  1. hotofficeguy

    hotofficeguy New Member

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    OK im the older top guy here. My situation is sort of making me have some strange emotions. Well first my bf is a top in the bedroom, but out of the bedroom he tends not to take control. Is this because he wants to have all control in a certain area of our relationship. I on the other hand im quite assertive and even controlling at times. I am learning that even though i am a top that bottoming can be such a release. I love the fact that he makes me feel im not in contol.

    Now here is my question. Currently im feeling I gave up my role as the top. Is this why I feel the assertivness or control issue for me is also leaving me. Which is sort of causing problems.

    How do I approach this situation with him.
     
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