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Do you have a fantasy about older women now?
Did you have it when you were young?
If so, what about an older woman appeals to you?

I date mostly men damn near half my age. They are excellent eye candy and have energy to keep up with me. They are often quite sexually adventurous compared to men my age.

Let's explore this from a man's perspective!
 
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Do you have a fantasy about older women now?
Did you have it when you were young?
If so, what about an older woman appeals to you?

I date mostly men damn near half my age. They are excellent eye candy and have energy to keep up with me. They are often quite sexually adventurous compared to men my age.

Let's explore this from a man's perspective!

I have always preferred older women, I would say starting around 17/18 was my first interest. I think at that time it was more a maturity thing, they weren't as cliquey and things like the HS age girls my own age. As I got older I continued to prefer older women, I would say the big draw now is I like a woman who knows what she wants. I think more mature women often are a bigger sex drive, they are more sensual and just overall more confident in themselves.
 

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My wife is 6 months older than me, does that count? o_O

I've never had any inherent draw to older women per say, but as someone starting to get closer and closer to 40, I can see the appeal from the other end. I couldn't imagine in my late 40's being a a relationship that's anything but purely sexual with someone in their early 20's. I feel so far removed from that world now. It's crazy because it's not that big a difference, but I just think I would be totally annoyed with the bs. Maybe that's the appeal? Maybe if I was a twenty something again, I would feel the same way? I don't see it, because at that age you're apart of it all I suppose.

Honestly, I can't even handle having a conversation now with people my age with their heads stuck in their fucking phones, or having to look at shit on instagram or taking selfies. I've got to guess that's much worse if you're 15-20 years younger ;)

I guess that didn't help much, but there's my 2 cents.
 

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Do you have a fantasy about older women now?
Did you have it when you were young?
If so, what about an older woman appeals to you?

I date mostly men damn near half my age. They are excellent eye candy and have energy to keep up with me. They are often quite sexually adventurous compared to men my age.

Let's explore this from a man's perspective!
I have been attracted to around my age as of currently 27-45

it has changed as i have gotten older I used to prefer a wider age when i was 18
so 18-45 at the point..

I tend to self sabotage when it comes to dating / sex... I had a few good solid chances but messed things up..:expressionless:
 
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I usually have fantasies with younger women or at least around my age, but I wouldn't care about sex/relationship with a person older than me, if that person is hot and interesting to me.

Well... women are hot in their youth, as long as they take care of themselves, like anyone else. When I close my eyes and fantasize about sex, I picture myself with a younger woman.

Don't get me wrong, there are lots of older women with who I can only dream of a chance to have sex with, but I think that the age most women are at their peak, aesthetically speaking, is their 20's and middle 30's and, since we are talking about fantasies, I tend to fantasize about younger women.
 
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When I was 26 and stationed in 29 Palms, I was dating a 51 year old woman who had worked a ranch her whole life. She had stamina and energy and expert skills. Always willing to teach to make it better. Oh and an entire closet overflowing with costumes and lingerie
 

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I usually have fantasies with younger women or at least around my age, but I wouldn't care about sex/relationship with a person older than me, if that person is hot and interesting to me.

Well... women are hot in their youth, as long as they take care of themselves, like anyone else. When I close my eyes and fantasize about sex, I picture myself with a younger woman.

Don't get me wrong, there are lots of older women with who I can only dream of a chance to have sex with, but I think that the age most women are at their peak, aesthetically speaking, is their 20's and middle 30's and, since we are talking about fantasies, I tend to fantasize about younger women.

I feel that men get to aging pretty quickly around 30 and up. I like the young looking ones. They also have a lot of energy to keep up with me. I've been asked for ID by several upon meeting because they refuse to believe my age. If they look super young I also check their ID. Lol
 
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I feel that men get to aging pretty quickly around 30 and up. I like the young looking ones. They also have a lot of energy to keep up with me. I've been asked for ID by several upon meeting because they refuse to believe my age. If they look super young I also check their ID. Lol
I'm the exception to that :) I don't even have "smile lines"... I have high cheek bones, I still look like i'm 18-19
<- 31 yo..
 
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1st and foremost, I give all praise to American Pie to highlighting older women as a viable option.
Secondly, an unfortunate statutory event kicked off my sex drive pretty early, and all of the girls and women whom checked off my visual attraction lists were older and more developed at the time, something that has stuck with me..
Thirdly, i was amongst the shortest in my class until 8th grade or so and the youngest until freshman yr of college, so even then most female peers were older than me.
Lastly, adulthood has really brought a dramatically deeper look at the cost/benefit analyses of dealing with younger women(18-25?), and frankly, the physical and visual draw doesn't really seem worth the juvenile antics I'd have to endure; and that's even assuming the physical and visual draw isn't drastically mitigated by puberty, child bearing, etc.
I know it's tropish and not really based in any concrete evidence, but my experience has typically been women get with men under the expectation that they'll change eventually, while men hope the woman they love stays the same, more or less..and to me an older woman, whose appeal has held up throughout the multitudes of natural and societal influences that drastically impact a woman's appearance, behavior, and mindset over the years, seems like a smarter bet for sustained interest and attraction than, a younger and more volatile woman.
Not to mention, now that Im 35, if I were to be hypothetically single, any possible encounter, whether it be casual or sustained, would be so much easier if both parties came into it with a healthy understanding and respect for the demands of work, children, life in general; something not really common to individuals 25 and below.

Plus we dont tend to fantasize about the common, we fantasize about the rare...20-25yr old hot women are a dime a dozen, but I have nothing but mad respect for a 45 yr old and up ass that damn near demands i take a second glance.
 
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I feel that men get to aging pretty quickly around 30 and up. I like the young looking ones. They also have a lot of energy to keep up with me. I've been asked for ID by several upon meeting because they refuse to believe my age. If they look super young I also check their ID. Lol

I don't think men age quickly after their 30s. I think that after our 30s, both men and women start to "decline" and that's where genetics starts to play a large role. If you take care of your body and if you have a good genetic, the 30s are the new 20s. My mom, for example, is near her 60s and has absolutely no wrinkle in her face, but other people start to have eye wrinkles in their 20s. I don't even need to talk about how exercises make a person look younger and hotter. However, I do think women suffer more with age than men for a number of reasons (most of them are social)

There are people who are in their 50s and can barely move. Now, there are other people in their 80s who can run a marathon. And then we have Tom Cruise almost in his 60s and he is doing Mission: Impossible 28.

I think a male top body is too related to exercises and this you may keep a lot of it as you age, but when we are comparing older women to younger women, there are body characteristics in younger women that I would "miss" in an older woman.
 
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I don't think men age quickly after their 30s. I think that after our 30s, both men and women start to "decline" and that's where genetics starts to play a large role. If you take care of your body and if you have a good genetic, the 30s are the new 20s. My mom, for example, is near her 60s and has absolutely no wrinkle in her face, but other people start to have eye wrinkles in their 20s. I don't even need to talk about how exercises make a person look younger and hotter. However, I do think women suffer more with age than men for a number of reasons (most of them are social)

There are people who are in their 50s and can barely move. Now, there are other people in their 80s who can run a marathon. And then we have Tom Cruise almost in his 60s and he is doing Mission: Impossible 28.

I think a male top body is too related to exercises and this you may keep a lot of it as you age, but when we are comparing older women to younger women, there are body characteristics in younger women that I would "miss" in an older woman.

I disagree. I see a lot of men. I've seen a ton of all ages. Professional athletes even. Young ones. I wear them out. I condition them for their sports. Lol many begin to look quite aged in appearance by 30. I'm an exception for women my age, maybe you are the exception for men. But I know what I find attractive is youthful and energetic. Hard hard hard to find. Especially men who arent losing their hair, getting gray and wrinkles and dad bods and tiring out. I have yet to find a man who can keep up with me in or out of the bedroom at any age.

My mom also hardly has a wrinkle in her late 60s. I'm 40 and have zero wrinkles or stretch marks or gray hair. I'm fit as a fiddle. Young men say can you keep up with me for 2 hours? I'm like...2 hours is pre game foreplay, how about 18 hours with multiple rounds for you and a few dozen orgasms for me and I might let you nap. I keep Gatorade in the baby fridge in my bedroom for them. Some of them could use IV fluids when I'm done with them.
 
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I'm an exception for women my age, maybe you are the exception for men.
Yes we are! Fist bump :emoji_punch: I always looked younger. I am entering my 30s and it is cool because I younger women don't bother going out with me and some older women enjoy going out with a younger man. Finally looking younger is paying off for me.

I keep Gatorade in the baby fridge in my bedroom for them..

I was just wainting for this sentence :joy:

But I know what I find attractive is youthful and energetic. Hard hard hard to find. Especially men who arent losing their hair, getting gray and wrinkles and dad bods and tiring out. I have yet to find a man who can keep up with me in or out of the bedroom at any age.

I think I see what you mean. I was focused only on the physical aspect.

I guess being physically younger is not the most important thing in your case. This ability to convey youth is directly related personality... Here we say some people become older "in spirit" and that some people already are born old. Personality and personal philosophy play a large role when it comes to looking younger. It doesn't matter how fit and young the guy is, if he is not open minded he won't face 18 straight hours of sex after a while. Most people are easily accommodated and stop experimenting new things with age.

I also love going out with truly energetic, lively and open minded women, but that is not a age issue.
 

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Yes we are! Fist bump :emoji_punch: I always looked younger. I am entering my 30s and it is cool because I younger women don't bother going out with me and some older women enjoy going out with a younger man. Finally looking younger is paying off for me.



I was just wainting for this sentence :joy:



I think I see what you mean. I was focused only on the physical aspect.

I guess being physically younger is not the most important thing in your case. This ability to convey youth is directly related personality... Here we say some people become older "in spirit" and that some people already are born old. Personality and personal philosophy play a large role when it comes to looking younger. It doesn't matter how fit and young the guy is, if he is not open minded he won't face 18 straight hours of sex after a while. Most people are easily accommodated and stop experimenting new things with age.

I also love going out with truly energetic, lively and open minded women, but that is not a age issue.

My sex partners are mostly 18-24. Very few in their 30s. And 1 that is 50. He could use to bring his A game a bit more. But I waited 20 years lusting after him to finally get to enjoy him sexually so I dont want to toss him off the roster. And a few of these young dudes wear out quick too. Like my professional hockey player boy is 22 and he gets worn out quick. On the other hand another guy I see is 38 and a former Airforce dude and is in the best shape of any man I've been with and puts my ass right into a coma after he conquers me. I love it. But looks wise I really like a youthful young face and a virtual hairless body for the most part.
 

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I love older women. I'm 55 and wife is 60. Not a lot older but some. My main attraction to oldrr women started when i was 22 and the girl was 33. She approached me at a club and we hit it off. After we got back to her house is when i took a good look in some light and was smitten...lol. She was 5'5" brown eyes and a beautiful,womanly figure. 36d cups and about a 36 hips with a 30 waist. The best part was her attitude. Always positive. That started my infatuation with older women. Thats my contribution for what its worth.
 

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No I don't really fantasise about older women. I really mainly like girls my own age (university age women) but if I was attracted to an older woman her age wouldn't really be the reason why I was attracted to her. Like for example I like Jennifer Lopez and she's an older woman but it's just cuz I think she's hot it's not because she's an older woman if that makes any sense.
 
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