I thought that was perplexing to I got confusedWTF does child custody have to do with the topic?
I thought that was perplexing to I got confusedWTF does child custody have to do with the topic?
So?When I was a bellhop the amount of older women who bedded me was plentiful.I think it was the tight pants.Couple tore them off me.
Congratulations on your mostly great marriage.
42 years is very successful.
I suppose age isn’t an issue until later in life and now you are facing the realities of the trouble it may bring.
Thanks, Max. I appreciate your sentiments.Congratulations on your mostly great marriage.
42 years is very successful.
I suppose age isn’t an issue until later in life and now you are facing the realities of the trouble it may bring.
If my sexuality must be seen as predatory I would like to be a Xenomorph, please... .
I respect your guy's relationship but I have to admit your story struck a scary chord with me as my ex was a bit older than me at a young age(I was 20 she was 27). I kept getting the feeling I was more of a failsafe, a backup plan for aging than an actual partner. Even now because of past lifestyle choices of my wife who is the same age, it makes me wonder if locking me down was part of the long term plan to ensure her survival and upkeep without having to, wanting to, or being able to necessarily attend to my physically intimate needs as time goes on.I will chime in. I was 23 and my wife was 32 when we got together 46 years ago (married 42). It was great for a long, long time but now she is mostly bedridden, in poor overall health and has told me, “I no longer have desire for you. But I still need you to take care of me. We will have some nice moments together.” It’s been four years since we were last intimate. The last time was really good for her too, I just didn’t know it would be the last time.
As I was diagnosed with Parkinson’s disease in August, 2020, my ability to continue caring for her is becoming more and more fraught. I don’t regret a moment of our life together, but I am scared of the way forward.
I respect your guy's relationship but I have to admit your story struck a scary chord with me as my ex was a bit older than me at a young age(I was 20 she was 27). I kept getting the feeling I was more of a failsafe, a backup plan for aging than an actual partner. Even now because of past lifestyle choices of my wife who is the same age, it makes me wonder if locking me down was part of the long term plan to ensure her survival and upkeep without having to, wanting to, or being able to necessarily attend to my physically intimate needs as time goes on.
I understand your recent Parkinson's diagnosis may make this a moot point, but given her admission of no more desire for you has she offered up at least some alternate solutions for you to have your needs met while you diligently attend to hers? Or are you not open to auxiliary means as a function of some sense of loyalty?
I too do not agree with the conclusions a lot of men come to about older women in relationships with younger men, but as I alluded to earlier in the thread, I think there is a collective cognitive dissonance as to the reality that drives men to even make conclusions; that during adolescence and young formative adulthood girls and women display a overwhelming preference for partners their age or older, almost exclusively, despite there being no shortage of younger male suitors.“Well we all know that women who seek younger men are whores, sluts, bitches who are trying to recapture their youths.. They really don’t know what they want.” SMH..It really amazes that is the thought