OMG.. dont come in here!!!!

petite

Expert Member
Joined
Mar 3, 2010
Posts
7,199
Media
2
Likes
146
Points
208
Sexuality
No Response
Gender
Female
Can anyone explain to me how this is different for the man than the cowgirl position? I get why they would do this with a camera there because she does look attractive from behind, but if two people were to reinact this, it just looks like a much less comfortable version of the cowgirl position to me, for the guy especially. Wouldn't it be more fun if she were straddling him and he didn't have to hold his feet up and he could use his hands to fondle her breasts or rub her clit?
 

FullKilt

Experimental Member
Joined
Feb 25, 2012
Posts
109
Media
1
Likes
2
Points
51
Location
USA
Sexuality
100% Straight, 0% Gay
Gender
Male
Can anyone explain to me how this is different for the man than the cowgirl position?

I looks like it's mostly an angle of penetration change, but could also limit the depth of penetration and take a little pressure of the lady's knees by putting her up slightly higher. Cowgirl is often painful for my wife, so this might be an option to try.

FK
 

petite

Expert Member
Joined
Mar 3, 2010
Posts
7,199
Media
2
Likes
146
Points
208
Sexuality
No Response
Gender
Female
I looks like it's mostly an angle of penetration change, but could also limit the depth of penetration and take a little pressure of the lady's knees by putting her up slightly higher. Cowgirl is often painful for my wife, so this might be an option to try.

FK

I noticed that about how she seems to be resting on his thighs and thought of that from a woman's point of view, but so many guys said that they were eager to try it that I wondered what the appeal was for them if they aren't looking at her from behind. I know from being in that position that holding one's legs up like that isn't super comfortable. As a woman, like I said before, no clitoral stimulation in that position. It doesn't appeal to me for that reason.

My knees will eventually start to hurt, too, in cowgirl on a bed. I prefer sex in an armless chair with my feet on the ground straddling him, which provides me with excellent clitoral stimulation by rubbing up against his belly as I ride up and down his cock, a great handhold (back of the chair), much better control, less muscle and knee pain, and done in front of a mirror so that he can look over my shoulder, looks that beautiful, too. But that's just my opinion. I think sitting in a chair is more comfortable for him position-wise and so he can use his hands to fondle my breasts or my ass, my lips and neck close enough to kiss, and the view is excellent. I don't think it appears often in porn because that position makes it difficult to film the woman's chest, but in practice, I find it to be ideal for me.

Porn is a terrible teacher. What looks good so often doesn't feel the best.
 
Last edited:

FullKilt

Experimental Member
Joined
Feb 25, 2012
Posts
109
Media
1
Likes
2
Points
51
Location
USA
Sexuality
100% Straight, 0% Gay
Gender
Male
I prefer sex in an armless chair with my feet on the ground straddling him, which provides me with excellent clitoral stimulation by rubbing up against his belly as I ride up and down his cock, a great handhold (back of the chair), much better control, less muscle and knee pain, and done in front of a mirror so that he can look over my shoulder, looks that beautiful, too. But that's just my opinion. I think sitting in a chair is more comfortable for him position-wise and so he can use his hands to fondle my breasts or my ass, my lips and neck close enough to kiss, and the view is excellent. I don't think it appears often in porn because that position makes it difficult to film the woman's chest, but in practice, I find it to be ideal for me.

You are not the only one who likes that exact position for those exact reasons. Our dining room chairs are very sturdy. My wife picked them out.:biggrin1:

FK
 

TheEnforcer

Experimental Member
Joined
Nov 20, 2008
Posts
95
Media
0
Likes
6
Points
103
Location
Chicago
Sexuality
60% Gay, 40% Straight
Gender
Male
Hot! This would be a perfect position to fuck in a bisexual male- female - male scenario. The thought of that just gave me a boner. Lol ;-)