1. B_andyo

    B_andyo New Member

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    Well, I am a cool guy I talk to everyone, and respond strangers about personal questions things I do w/e ... I talk with anyone about anything, as I am friendly.. but dang.. some people I think they are just stalkers.. ;)

    like check out these messages send to me daily ....either email, or IM


    FUCK MAN... give me a peek at your dick now!!!!!

    after I said no 10 times.. u still hear this..

    did you go get the cam?
    come on

    others just go out from the limit, after replaying 1 time only here is what i get

    Hey Andy,
    I just wanted to say thank you so much for sending me those pictures of you that's great. i cant believe how your dick gets sooooooooo huge anyway could you come over and show me how it works. i have no one to do it with. dont respond back my mom always reads them and deletes them dont know why but you can call me at 941-448-XXX i would like to talk to you i would love to hang out with you. i have no friends. i hate being lonely. i go to the gym everyday.

    other...


    Man, comon I will even pay you..tell me where you live.



    and this goes on.. This are from males of course I dont take it like this if they were girls..
    I am not talking about people in here who comment like "i love ur cock" or w/e these just want to eat you alive no matter what..


    INCREDIBLE!

    THIS IS EVERYDAY FOLKS..
    what should i do?
     
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    Was that a complaint or an advertisement?...:smile:
     
  3. Osiris

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    Ignore it. They go away. It happens. They are usually trawlers looking to try and get off.

    And you are right, you are one of the nicest guys on here man.
     
  4. B_andyo

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    thx Orisis! ;) and yet these are the news :)
     
  5. BurningVenus

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    I get lots of this junk too. They are members I know nothing about, they have no posts, no pictures and nothing to say, except 'can I lick you all over? Can I *$%#@ your ass? And how big do you like 'em baby?'

    I block them and forget about it.
     
  6. naughty

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    Delete, Delete, Delete. You are a very handsome, well endowed young man. Unfortunately it seems that there are individuals who come to this board with the mentality that other members are fair game for their porn addictions. Keep being the cool person you are showing yourself to be. If they get to be too outrageous report them or put them on ignore.
     
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    Oh the trials of fame!

    Make a stock of canned replies that range from the demurely polite to the politely firm and just send them back as replies. If after three such replies or if the person is really rude like the first one, then just put them on ignore.

    Do NOT provoke as that can make some people a bit crazy. For your own safety and sanity just be cool.

    "Thanks for your IM. While I'm happy you like my pics/posts, I'm not interested in meeting anyone IRL/camming/etc. I'm just here to make friends."

    "Sorry, I do not ever meet people IRL/camming/etc. Please do not contact me again for any kind of meeting or sex. I hope you will respect me as I respect you."

    Third time, ignore.
     
  8. B_Think_Kink

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    Stop complainging.. and utilize the ignore feature.
     
  9. SyddyKitty

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    Just constantly dekete them. Don't reply! Even acknowledging them with a reply can lead to them sticking to you for a while. x.x If they go overboard, like somehow contact you in some other fashion that you've never made public, get the authorities involved. Not saying your case will end up that extreme, but net stalkers are out there. x.x
     
  10. exwhyzee

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    A lot of us get these messages, and you just don't respond. Its sad to say, but you have to be not such a nice guy and use the delete button. However, for all the trolls that are on the site that "don't get it", there are some very cool people here that "do get it", and that's what keeps me coming back.

    Don't let the horny ppl get you down.
     
  11. B_andyo

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    well I am not talking about lpsg ....only a few are from here.. :)
     
  12. Stretch

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    I didn't mean to be flip before andyo...By drawing attention to them you give them way more credence then they deserve. We all get them from all over. Don't waste your energy. They're just words out of the ether. Always focus your energy on the positive...
     
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    Then from where? If you're giving people contact information then perhaps you should change yours to a dummy account, only giving certain people the contact means you pay attention to. Setup a Yahoo! address and just clean it out once a week.

    Otherwise just don't give people a means to contact you.
     
  14. simcha

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    Andy,

    Put those trolls on ignore. Then move on. Life's too short to fuss over the pervs.
     
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    You should report the post in that the person sending it sound under age.
     
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    They've seen your video???:cool:
     
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    Well look man....you're damned handsome, killer bod, hot cock, easygoing, nice personality and friendly. You're bound to have overly enthusiastic fans. It makes me cringe that so many of my fellow gay men go overboard and become obnoxious in their hots for you. I'd suggest, like the others who replied to this thread, that you simply delete and ignore. There's gotta be a point at which most of the annoying people have sent you their drool! Then, maybe only gorgeous women will email you and send you their naked pics and phone numbers...:tongue::tongue::wink:
     
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    What should you do? :confused:

    Andy you should be glad that you have made this poor homebody feel less lonely. I think you should forward all those pesky PMs to him so that he can have lots of friends too. I'm sure that homeboy and mom will find the extra attention thrilling. Don't forget to get his personal information and have the man who is willing to pay (to find out where you live) send the money there. He should be very grateful to receive funds to pay for his gym membership.:biggrin1:
     
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    Now hold on a minute here!

    I have developed friendships with quite a few people who sent me "heeeeey babe" pm's that I was polite enough to answer.

    and...

    not naming any names but one or two people ON THIS VERY THREAD pm'ed me out of the blue and as a result of the interchange became somewhat friendly with me.

    So it's not true that all initial "hey babe" pm's are from idiots, trolls or jerks.

    I am never able to keep up with my pm's, but I enjoy many of them. And if anyone that I am friendly with and I didn't answer your last PM -- I'm sooooo sorry and please don't feel insulted.

    :wink::wink::wink:
     
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    I get a few too... I answer as 99 times out of 100 everyone is cool. But even then, can you fault BTM_Novice ;-)

    I keeeeeeeeeeeeeeeed.
     
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