On the other side of my face...

Discussion in 'Et Cetera, Et Cetera' started by Rugbypup, Jul 12, 2008.

  1. Rugbypup

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    As many of you guys know, there is a site set up by a former member of LPSG and many folks have an account on both sites, if not leave here and take refuge there.

    All well and good and each to their own.

    However, I was just informed that folks from here openly bitch and slag people from here off behind their backs over their and yes, comments have been made about me.

    I'm not a member of the other side so I haven't been able to see what and even who has said what but talk about if you can't say it to my face, say it behind my back.

    Frankly, I'm kinda grossed out and a bit upset by it.

    What's your opinion on this?
     
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  2. JamieBoy

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    I'm sorry.

    Seem you are a good guy - with a great sense of humour. (Perhaps? the dryness of it all, is lost on the less cerebral?)

    If it's that condescending Banlyhamster - no real worries – can’t stand her myself.
    There are those here who seem to advocate that the sounding board(s) of LPSG should be censored and stifled of any opposing views as to how they DEEM society and the world should to be.
     
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    I signed up to affirm that I'd taken their many critisisms concerning me on board. I was quite upset by what was said about me, but I got over it pretty quickly. They are, I suppose, entitled to think whatever they want about me. And that was their place to do so, which is fine.

    Although I disagree strongly with some of the more 'colourful vocabulary', I understand there must be some truth in what they said. I hold no personal vendetta against any of them.
     
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    Yes they do and yes you are. You are, however, free to join that forum and defend yourself as you see fit. I enjoy the other place but it's not without its faults. The one you mention is the worst and I dislike it intensely.
     
  5. Rugbypup

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    I'm half intrigued and half disgusted and I don't even know what's been said.

    As much as I would like to know, I understand it's not likely to be nice and worse still might have been written by some I know and like from here.

    It's so easy to forget how unpleasant people can be. :frown1:
     
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    Pup I used to hear the same things, that certain people dogged members of this site on another one. It sounds like more of a headache than its worth. I never asked for a link or even considered joining to see what's being said. I'd rather deal with a brave antagonizer who can confront me directly. A coward who has to talk behind my back is about as worthless as used tissue......Nevermind, used tissue can be folded up and reused if necessary.
     
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    I wouldn't worry myself with it. People are going to say and think things about you no matter what you do are say. It's their problem, not yours.

    I don't worry about these things, you don't like me fine, I'll live on.
     
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    Who cares. I'm sure I get talked about, but it's the internet, people will always talk.
     
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    link please ?
     
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    Not a member, haven't read it and frankly would rather not.
     
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    Please don't post a link. Too many would get upset by the nasty comments over there.
     
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    Hey Rugbypup just raise your hind leg and piss on them.
     
  13. D_Bob_Crotchitch

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    Folk are going to talk about you until the day you die. Let folk talk. Just know that it isn't true, and go on with life. Hold your head up, smile, and enjoy yourself. Living a happy life is the best revenge.
     
  14. snottybooger

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    get over it. who cares? what you dont see wont harm you right? ignorance is bliss? go back in your cocoon of bliss and oblivion. get over the fact that its only the internet. forums are forums. we're not discussing how to bring worldwide peace or help developing countries. they are forums for people big huge cocks and their admirers! f**k them.
     
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    Peeps have lied on me my whole life. I can't afford to entertain their garbage in my head. Just go on, smile, say good morning to people. Eventually, you'll find many people like you. You bring a smile to their face.
     
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    If anyone mentioned you at the other site, I missed it.

    You don't have to sign up to read what others have posted. There is also an area where people who do not wish to sign up can post.
     
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    I logged in there for the first time in months...but I don't feel I belong there really. Like I'm unworthy of being among so many great people. But I do miss most of the people who are now posting there.
     
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    I'm guessing that members whom have enjoyed adult discussions with other members of all ages over the years in the Et Cetera Et Cetera forum could possibly find it a bit childish and somewhat irritating to be reading posts requesting 'tummy rubs', 'scratches behing ears' and references to 'my udders' in the middle of one of their more serious debates, even though it's only meant to be lighthearted.

    I mean....I know that you both don't really believe that you are a dog & a cow.......?:biggrin1:

    (I've always had a problem with 'who' & 'whom' so don't flame me if I've got it wrong here!) :smile:
     
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    Let me say that i've also been the subject of the website, my friends were also the subject and also some people i dont care much for. It's quite funny to see what it said over there. I know you've been mentioned up.

    The one thing i will say is that i lurk there every so often and search for my own name to see if the same old dickhead is causing problems as usual. Usually he is too busy causing problems with other people.

    Many of us there feel comfortable talking about things because the moderation is not heavy and threads don't get closed as soon as they start to naturally die down (wtf is that about??)

    If memory serves, i dont think i've ventured to say anything there that i wouldnt say publicly here because you never know who is watching that board. I leave my more sinister verbage to MSN messenger with my friends, not even PM around here. It's not worth it.

    Might i also suggest that if you are too outspoken, too soft spoken, too nice, too rude, too anything you are going to get talked about- whether publicly or privately.
     
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    personally I dont care what people think... if they dont like me...fuck em...

    if they do...FUCK EM HARDER!!! :)

    It's their loss pup...you seem like a good fella...
     
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