My first marriage: She was 21 and I was 23. We had dated for six years and decided early on that we want to wait until we were married to have sex for the first time. However, during our six years of dating we had done about everything except sexual penetration. Over the years, we had moved from French kissing to sucking her nipples to her sucking my cock and me sucking her clit to giving each other orgasms. The last year I fingered her as part of our foreplay, first with one finger, then two, and finally three. The purpose was to make her feel good and also to stretch her hymen so when we did have sex it would not be too painful to her.
After what wedding we drove about an hour to a mountain resort for our honeymoon. Our cabin had a fireplace and I had brought a special, 6X5 foot, very soft, red rug for the cabin floor. After dinner we went to our cabin, took a shower together, and proceeded to make love on the rug. It was very good; I did not last very long; but it broke the final remnants of her hymen; and she bleed a little.
We got in bed and quickly dropped off to sleep. During the night we woke up about every hour and had another round of sex. I was exhausted in the morning so we had breakfast brought to the cabin. The rest of the day we spend in the cabin, just enjoying each other. Great way to start a marriage.