Once you've tried black, can you ever go back?

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here's a lame analogy but it makes my point: cheddar isn't stilton, but they're both cheese, just different flavours.

Different flavours? And you realise that the topic of this thread is about sex? So you believe the premise of the OP is correct, that 'once you go black, you never go back?'

i.e. there is a real and permanent difference between having sex with a black man and a man of a different race? You know what 'once you black, you never go back' means, right?

Sure the OP could just be talking about a fetish, that's FINE. But present it as a fetish then, not a generalisation.
 

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dude being black IS OK / being gay IS OK / being different IS OK
you're an intelligent man, with some valid points_respect ukt

since when is being different okay?? being different, on a historical perspective, has gotten people thrown in gas chambers, ostricized, denied equal rights, etc... i think that if we're truly in a state where everyone's equal, noone's different. i don't think you understand the context i was speaking in but for what it was ur post made some slighty on-point observations
 

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Different flavours? And you realise that the topic of this thread is about sex? So you believe the premise of the OP is correct, that 'once you go black, you never go back?'

i.e. there is a real and permanent difference between having sex with a black man and a man of a different race? You know what 'once you black, you never go back' means, right?

Sure the OP could just be talking about a fetish, that's FINE. But present it as a fetish then, not a generalisation.
The point of 'difference' Group51 is the question. The degree to which you choose to define that word (whether subtle or radical) gives you your answer (ie. Sex with a tall person can be said to be 'different' to sex with a short person). Being mixed race and having slept with both black and white (and a few others...:) i'm happy to describe the initial experience as different, until the personal takes over that sensual reaction.

the question as i said in my last post is idiotic and not worth my (or anyone's) time discussing.

cheers

To paraphrase Maya Angelou "We are more alike, than we are un-alike"
 

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since when is being different okay?? being different, on a historical perspective, has gotten people thrown in gas chambers, ostricized, denied equal rights, etc... i think that if we're truly in a state where everyone's equal, noone's different. i don't think you understand the context i was speaking in but for what it was ur post made some slighty on-point observations
i just meant I accept and love my difference (being a mixed race kid from a white background, some journey i can tell ya). Sure there are historical instances where that has been used as a destructive tool. But that was their ugly mistake proven by history to be the worst kind of evil, reason not to now cast everyone in one shade of grey?
_ukt
 

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To the OP.

Don't worry about some PC mad people on this site, shit happens aye? I love asian women, something about them drives me crazy, but I think as long as you don't purposely look for race-orientated relationships or exclude certains races based on that, you have nothing to worry about.

So enjoy the fruits of your labour! :)
 

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To the OP.

Don't worry about some PC mad people on this site, shit happens aye? I love asian women, something about them drives me crazy, but I think as long as you don't purposely look for race-orientated relationships or exclude certains races based on that, you have nothing to worry about.

So enjoy the fruits of your labour! :)


But when you start out describing a person by a racial perjorative....:eek:
 

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Whatever floats your boat, sweetie.

Just one question...why the hell would anyone other than you two care? Seriously. Sexual attraction is sexual attraction...what's the point?

Hi, i recently had my first experience with black dick and i am kinder liking it. I mean the grass is sometime greener on the otherside of the fence right? It worked out well, basically i picked up this yardie (dreads, gold teeth - the full works) told him that i had never slept with a black man before - he winked back and said that neither had he. What are your thoughts, views & comments on this?
 

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whether the guy is black, white, or asian, i always say, "some DOUCHEBAG just ran into me." people aren't as "objectionable" as you think they are. aren't you being "objectionable" by implying that all white people would go home and say "some black dude just hit my car"


Would they rust even if their vehicle didn't ?