I have a question... As gay men, we reach that point when we realise we aren't straight. Many go on to 'come out' and whether or not that they do, most go one to have relationships with other guys. But, where in the grand scheme, does it lead? Most of us won't have children and many still will never have someone to grow old with. So there is another realisation, you will not have the life your parents had. So at 60, 70, older still if your lot allows... how do you see yourself? Do straight men have a better, easier, time in later life with family, children and wives? At 31 and nearly half way through, hopfully not past it, I don't feel I've had a fraction of the life experience of most men my age. I guess the future is now playing on my mind. A penny for your thoughts. Love pup.