Disagreeing with my opinion is fine making a personal attack is not. Back Off! :angryfire2:
Wait, when you discuss how gay men over 35 have a reduced pool of partners to the extent that they are doomed to become pathetic old men who are confined to cruising rest stops, clubs and public restrooms, you are merely expressing your opinion; but when I question the pool of partners for single women over 35, it's a personal attack that offends your sensibilities? I believe the statistics on single women getting married over the age of 40 are quite low and that's a fact--that's just a reality. Gay men devolving into pathetic men is definitely more than an opinion, it's a gross misrepresentation of facts.
I'll gladly back off, but seriously, if you can dish it, you should at least be able to take it. What you wrote about gay men over 35 is remarkably insulting. All the more so when there are younger gay and questioning men on this site who are exploring their sexuality. You've just trotted out a gross stereotype that could easily affect others and make them feel that as the get older, past 30--their life will go downhill. That's bleak and untrue. But that stereotype and the perpetuation of that mindset can impact the self-esteem of gay men. However, the stuff I wrote about women over 40 is reported in the magazines, on tv and throughout popular culture. If that hurt your feelings to read what I wrote, I apologize. I hope though, if anything, maybe it might have illuminated how hurtful your words could have been to others.