I'm posting this here since I'm str8, but the question is relevant for all, male/female, str8/gay. My lady and I NEVER engage in what I'm referring to as "one way sex." That is, when we have sex it is about both of us reaching orgasm. I never just go up to her, whip it out, and encourage her to make me cum just for me. Nor does she just spread her legs and tell me to make her cum just for her. If we don't both go there, it isn't sex. Does anybody here routinely have "one way sex?" In my 30+ years of having sex, I've never done it, giving or receiving. Just wondering if anybody does/has and how you feel about it.