I recently joined a popular dating site and received an e-mail which puzzled, me as it appears to be written in some sort of code. :irked: "hey lets stick it together and match one?" What the hell is that supposed to mean? Is it a RPG reference? Cause I'm not into video games online or otherwise. Is he saying lets meet and see if we match? Cause if that's the case I can tell already that we don't. What would make a man who has a picture of a guy getting a lapdance on a motorcycle in his gallery think I would be interested in casual sex with him? FWIW: There is no reference to sex, casual sex, or LPSG in my profile. I specifically say that I am only interested in long term dating and marriage. Do some guys just message every woman and hope someone responds? Another concern is that some of the clowns I have denied friendship to on MySpace & FaceBook will see me at the mall or Walmart and try to get up in my grill about it. :scared: Apparently, as a single 43 year old woman I'm supposed to be desperate and lower my standards, but I'm not. That's kinda how I ended up with that last redneck fool. I called myself being open to the universe. Well let me tell you, the universe has a heck of a sense of humor.